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Hi Joy! Had a wonderful two day with my friend! Butch 
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There always has to be chemistry before physical and biological sex! 
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everybody jumped for Joy, Joy was hanging from the ceiling...
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I just never know who I may connect with.
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Absolutely.....spot on assessment.... "A full blown basket of hash browns with a steaming cup of 'WTF?" on the side" Enter my Lair: spudsy1000
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It's a trite cliché, but true nonetheless, that the brain is the biggest sex organ. Sure, one can get their rocks off with pretty much anyone, but there's nothing as satisfying as having a partner with whom you make that mental connection. I tend to be on the more quiet, introspective side ... but do so enjoy when conversations get past the awkward pleasantries and into more meaningful dialogue.
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Well said Joy, my favourite teacher calls it "heirarchy of values" even after practicing lot so f NLP from 0992 when I 1st saw Dr John Demartini talk at The London Palladium he blew me away with his explanations that adds so much more of what gels & why, so while his web site is naturally aimed at selling his many books & courses he has many YouTubes on many subjects including relationships from 4-45mins & almost any other topic you can think of, so yes I'm biased & yes, I always highly recommend them to many bloggers on here & elsewhere, thanks for sharing this critical Question, big warm horny hugs from London, UK, Mark x
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Gelling is interesting. You either do or don’t. My not Staci self is an introvert. So it’s hard to make a connection. But on those rare occasions, I know it’s real. There’s no telling how much I’ve missed by being an introvert. Gelled with wifey immediately when we met. So, there is a “where you been all my life” spark that happens. Have a great day! 💋 Staci
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1/6/2022 12:32 pm |
Nice
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Creo conocer un caso así... ja, ja. Buena vibra mi amiga.
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Thanks for the very nice blog. The mental attraction makes the rest so much more enjoyable. Attraction is more than physical and really can't be explained nor forgotten. Thank You for sharing. Very well described.
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I met someone at work almost two years ago. I didn't pay much attention to her other than knowing her name and having only necessary work-related interaction with her. That all changed last October. I got silly with her about something and there was a huge shift in the dynamic. We started talking, playing little pranks on each other and eventually started messaging and spending time together outside of work. The more we talked, the more we shared and the more we realized that we had much in common. Our sexual interests in particular synced up perfectly. If she weren't already attached, she would be my perfect ideal partner. She feels the same way. It wasn't quite instant chemistry, but once it started, it happened pretty fast.
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I used to care but these days I don't think about stuff like that. most people who meet me, try to catch up... It's all good... 😎❗❗ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I can usually tell right away whether I’m going to like someone right from the start or not like them at all. People who are judgey, close minded, have extreme political biases, or don’t have a good sense of humor are the ones I will not click with ever. Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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from the first blog i read you been in my head from all the picture you show my interest grows form what you like the same i like we could be friends for life you are so much like me only we can see you write want i want i have want you want just how do we gel together
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1/6/2022 8:16 pm |
I met a lady once who I chatted with quite a bit online, we decided to meet , went for casual drinks, she wanted to hookup, I was on the fence, but I drove an hr to meet her , so decided to get a room....well got to the room and she pulled out her pH and started blasting some music that i wasn't into..stripped , and went down on me...I got it there, I just couldn't gell with her.....so it was kind of a waste of time...lesson learned.
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Actually well said, stated, and thought out and all makes sense to me sweetie. Mind you Joy you seem to always make sense to me, i can are its not just a sexual things but the mind thing too and agree about how to gel with some and not with other and the in-between. Goes back to a fe of your blogs through the course of the too. More so if your not like minded at leas tin some ways to all ways vs not at all so forth. Opposites can attract sexually sure bot any ting more its really common or worlds out for ver along so on vs being like minded, the same, more in comma what ever the maybe. Communication is so vital and important though too, it is in friends, family, business so forth so as for lovers why wouldnt you want alls hat together as well too. So i agree with a few other things too getting laid and ex is one thing, then you got your 1 biters were real at the end of the day does noting other then a quick fix woody do da were as having that chemistry, connection, fired aspect cause you gotta start some were too as well, also makes mens show your win cause if you have these things yes it make site meet the sex the intimacy so m uhh more and better being comfortable with each other plus your going to want more with that person too when it all works out good, better. So get were your coming from, how you think way out honk and such too, if there snitching there at all how can some thing work or come out of it if theres nothing but when theres some hing so much can happen and come out of it. Also 1 of many reason why i like connecting with you cause of your mind set, thoughts, away of thinking, how you want that much more connection, chemistry, communication vs just fucking thats it with nothing into it or involved in it Really if some one ays attention to your blogs, how you think write really it snot that hard, for you not hard to decipher or figure out dos who whats what ect its smart too and makes sense. Why wouldnt some one want to connect with you more really smart and good with words and putting shit out there of all sorts were some are just trying to be popular thats it so being like minded, having a friendship, connection chemists all ties in together with you too, if i got you right and how you think and feel things you like want vs not i think I'm more on the moment then not with you.
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Intelligence is what makes sex fun, interesting and creative. New thoughts and ideas. Always something new to explore.
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Great minds think alike. I have been working on a similar post for the past couple of days as this topic has been on my mind for the past couple of weeks. Certainly, I agree with you whole heartedly when you gel with some one it is extra special. And sex with someone you gel with is the most satisfying experience ever. I too, like you, will try to draw people out of their shyness to help them become part of a group. And usually I get along with most people (who put forth an effort). This makes it harder for me to determine the degree to which I gel with others. The extremes are easy to identify; but where do you draw the line in the middle? And that where the answer to you question becomes evident. I have had sex with people that I gelled with to a point but those relationships didn't last. I still haven't figured out where to draw the line to invest time and energy into a relationship because it is rare to meet that person that you click with on every thing; and most will be somewhere along the clicking spectrum. You gotta know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em, know when to walk away, know when to run.... If you wish to contact me, I've setup a private Mailbox Private message Area WHAT39S IN THE VAULT STAYS IN THE VAULT in my Blog. CarpeJamie Check out my Blog CarpeJamie
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I think the attraction of the mind is more important than the physical. xoxo
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The sparks can be send even by e-mail... and the fire burns nearly as in person... when I think about what could be that fire in person...
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So true it's either there or it's not. Cannot be forced, exaggerated or implied.
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I can add even another layer on top of this. Two of my friends who were tested to see if they were compatible kidney donors had a blood type that matched. The kidney I received was a very good match. This makes me wonder if there is something biological that drew us to be friends. Most likely not, but it is just a thought that occurred.
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Happy Kiss a Ginger!! Stay sexy lovely Lady!
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Re: Intelligence There is a Yiddish saying in Portnoy’s complaint.’Ven der putz shteht, ligt der sechel in drerd’ That translates to When the penis stands up the brains get buried.
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