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Let's make it clear
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Let's make it clear Okay, I get a lot of "so, what are you looking for?" I think I make that pretty clear in my profile, but I'll break it down for those who need the crayon version. I like sex. No, let me rephrase that, I love sex. Now, one may ask, don't we all? Well, yes and no. Some see sex as the culmination of a relationship, and for some, yes, it is that. For me, it is a function. Well, you slut, how can that be? Well, my husband and my relationship functions on a deeper level. Sex is great, but it does not seal our relationship. Our sex life is a function, a sharing of our selves. It means nothing more or less than sharing a toothbrush or a cup of coffee. Sex is a function, like playing bridge or watching Game of Thrones. You either like it or you don't and not everyone does it he same way if you do. I love it, so I do it a lot and like most things that you love, you want to do it every way imaginable with everyone imaginable. That being said, what do I want? I want fuck buddies. Not friends with benefits, because there is a difference. FWBs spend time together. They get to know each others likes and dislikes in movies, art, food, etc. I don't care if you like sushi because the only eating you will be doing while with me will involve my pussy and I promise you, there is no fish there! FWBs are great for women who need that connection. I don't. I need skin on skin. I want you to come in, smile at me, fuck me and leave. That's it. We don't have to talk about our lives, our hopes, our dreams, our , our days, our work or anything, for that matter. Some of my best play mates don't say a word. How slutty is that??? Now, that is not to say that I don't enjoy a deeper relationship, because I do enjoy a boy friend from time to time. Those men are men I want to get into a emotional entanglement with. Feelings, snuggling, the whole nine. Just like if you were looking for a life mate, but the ultimate goal is not to become one, if that make sense. For that role, I seek a truly poly male who has other women in his life. Those are damn near impossible to find, so I stick to fuck buddies. So, what, you make ask, is wrong with a FWB? Well, for me, I don't do the whole, "wanna go have lunch?" thing with a guy just because I'm bored or because he is. If I want to spend time with you, there is a reason. Life is too short to waste a moment of it on reckless misadventure. Purpose, people, it has to be there. FWBs get muddy and feelings become posessiveness and that becomes love and all that other icky shit that has no business in this lifestyle. I do think a strong LIKE has a place in this this lifestyle, it pretty much has to be there, but love? No, save that for your soul mate or to describe your favorite pair of<b> boots. </font></b>In closing, I want to fuck. Simple. I want an uncomplicated guy who will come over, bring me a Diet Pepsi, fuck me till I can't breathe, tell me I'm cute, zip it up and leave. Call me in a few days, tell me I rocked and ask if he can come back. You don't have to chase me, wine me, dine me or even 69 me for that matter. Why complicate something as simple as sex? With things like politics, religion and health care out here, who the hell needs the extra work?? Have fun, fuck often and save yourself the headache! ~~Always Seeking!!~~ |
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My kind of woman....wish I were down south..
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I totally agreed with this
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