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What to do....  

Mrs_Seek 52F
61 posts
8/21/2018 8:35 pm
What to do....

So, you find yourself on the ass end of a shit relationship, finding out that the other person is a manipulative, calculating prick. You also know the other persons self abusive behaviors and risky sexual behavior. Then, low and behold, you see that person on FriendFinder-x. What to do? My inner human thinks, "you really should warn people" as you see the other person making new "friends" hand over fist. You want to save others the shit storm you waded through. But then you step back, take a deep breath and let it go because you are acutely aware that Karma is a complete bitch and that She will take the trash out for you.

Letting go of someone who sold you a person who genuinely cared about you, when in reality the person you bought was an emotionally abusive, manipulative, opportunistic, self serving, self absorbed , self righteous liar. Makes letting go so much easier. Makes appreciating those in your Circle a little easier. Makes guarding yourself against ass bags and general fuckery that much easier.

A heartfelt thanks to "that" person and that persons Toad. It was a slice, y'all......a slice of shit pie and I am unimaginaby better off. So, when you "like", "flirt" or message some random person, ask the right questions, ask the rest off the Lifestyle community, listen to the little voice in your head.

Live out loud, y'all, fuck well, and play nice!
~~Always Seeking!!~~
bker4ever 65M  
269 posts
8/21/2018 8:42 pm

 well glad your out of it now and can get on with your life


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/21/2018 8:58 pm

 my heart goes out to you sweetheart but look how beautiful you are guys find out yr available you be doing much better go have some fun doll save some time for you..hugs


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
8/21/2018 9:23 pm

 I think you're doing right by taking the high road. Years back, when I was going through my divorce, I had a good friend tell me that within 2 years, I'd be sending the guy she was having an affair with Christmas cards. I laughed and said he had to be joking. He said nope..you just write on the bottom of the card.

TMB, which stood for Took My Burden.

It sucks I know, but it will pass and soon you'll find yourself happy again. Then if you see him hooked up with someone else on here. Send her a message.

Thanks, TMB
" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
8/22/2018 8:14 am

 Glad you are going to move on and not fan the flames of revenge. Life is so much more fun when the air you breathe is fresh. You learned a valuable lesson- ask questions and listen to the replies. Hugs and enjoy this place
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Shots30 48M
2312 posts
8/25/2018 4:34 am

 I am glad that you are out of that situation. I can understand warning people, but when would it end. Eventually that person (the one that's manipulative, etc) well get their dues and pay for it. You are better off without them and I hope things are well.

Miss you!

Cheers!


Mrs_Seek 52F
8 posts
8/25/2018 9:22 pm

 I missed you when you came to town. Gotta love it when your phone takes a dip in the hot tub!
~~Always Seeking!!~~


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