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Women! How do we reject men softly?  

Elisausa 57F
35 posts
10/13/2018 2:47 pm
Women! How do we reject men softly?
...so they don’t go nuts and telling that it’s a mistake
and we should try and I always feeling awful!

I had been rejected by a midget after
PERSONAL MEETING! His profile said 5’6”
and I am 5’7” and I am ok with men of my
height or bit shorter. But he was 5’3” in
cowboy boots!!! Lmao

For an hour while we had food I was struggling
how do I say it bit too short...when he texted me
saying I was too far and not gorgeous enough!
I am still laughing but I am saying I haven’t
sent nasty message. We had texted a few times...
I was SO relieved that I don’t have to hurt his
feelings. Mtfkr apparently had no hurt feelings
to reject me...lmao

It was unforgettable experience!
But I am still nervous how to say NO
without sounding like a bitch!

Also isnit true that ratio w/m is 1/100
here?
I hear so many complaints from men about
fake women and shit but men aren’t so
noble and they don’t admit!

Just today talked to a bozo who’s profile said
Divorced. BUT he has a gf who can’t fuck him.

Like whaaaat? Have decency to say ‘attached’ but
he is ‘Divorced’...just venting!
Do men go nuts when you reject them?
Do you feel bad rejecting a man?


CuckQueanCouple1 47M
1 post
10/29/2018 10:35 am

 After reading your profile and a couple of your blogs, I can't imagine you would care about how you came off to anyone.


Silverline2433 64M
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3/24/2019 8:53 pm

 First of all, thanks for even asking the questions. It shows an admirable level of empathy. As a guy, I don't know if there is a good answer. One person's soft reject is another person's brutal put-down. What I do know is if you spend some time cultivating a relationship and if it doesn't work out, you need to tell the person. I hate when people ghost out.

Your story, by the way, was funny and it says a lot about you that you're able to laugh about it.


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