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BDSM Sub & Dom Discussion  

Dommatrix 55M/54F
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7/6/2015 7:04 pm
BDSM Sub & Dom Discussion

My Sub Anvil has been active in the lifestyle for a great while, he has experienced and experimented with the both roles in BDSM, a Dom and a Sub, When I met him I had no experience in the lifestyle, other than reading about it in fantasy novels...but I was fascinated with it...curious...and it seemed so mystical...like forbidden fruit.

Then I met Anvil...he caught my attention and fascination in every way possible....besides the fact that he is sexy as hell and handsome...he has this aura about himself, confident and relaxing, almost soothing and I had to have him for myself. It wasn't until our first intimate experience, which was lovely and romantic and soft, that I became aware of his nipple piercings and his Prince Albert...I never knew or been with a man with piercings before. So I started asking him questions about them, why he got them and what purpose they serve...and from that point on I was hooked.

Anvil is a switch and he explained to me what that is and said he would help me find myself, and let me tell you, we found out real quick. The first night he topped me for hours, using floggers, paddles, nipple clamps and ball gag...and fucked me every which to Sunday (BY THE WAY NO LIE WHEN YOU CATCH THIS MAN IN THE RIGHT MIND SET...he is like a fucking machine...we had a five hour fuck fest one morning...he just woke me and took me and when I looked at the clock...and then looked again...five hours had passed and I had no idea where they went)...ok got a little side tracked...LOL...but what I learned is that I hated the bottom role...could not stand it...I hated being tied up and restrained...COULD NOT STAND THE NIPPLE CLAMPS...and it was then I learned I was Dom...I should have known from the start but not having any prior experiece I opted for what I thought was the easier role...and was I wrong.

I was a little nervous and worried about breaking the news to Anvil that I hated being a sub...but when I got the courage and told him...he said he already knew and he was just having fun with me I reached the breaking point...let me tell you that mother fucker paid for it!

I have to say, as time passed and I learned more from Anvil and researching on my own...some trial and error...I love the role of Domina and wouldn't have it any other way...it's suits me just fine.

I still have much to learn...Anyone who thinks they know it all has a harsh lesson coming, but I have come a long way and I have a great mentor...though he is My Bitch...but he is very clever and a book of knowledge on the subject.

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