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Ok, gloves off So it has been awhile since the last party. I am getting asked for another. The problems are many. First it is mostly guys that are asking. For the most part the size of the<b> parties </font></b>are determine by the of ladies that attend. I try keep the mix at 2 guys for every Lady. I have bumped that up if I have a Lady that asks for more guys. I have done this as not scare away single ladies that have inquired about attending and feel that the party will turn into gangbang on them. be honest it has seemed impossible get single ladies attend. I have spent hours on a phone with them answering all kinds of questions and assuring them this is a safe place attend. Nothing happens without their consenting it. It appears this is not working as I have had anywhere from 2 to 4 single Ladies ask me about each party and never sign up. What do you want see get you attend a party? Lets talk about couples next. Some of the problems for the single Ladies cross transfer here couples. I DO understand that you want keep your wife safe. Again I have spent HOURS on the phone with couples answering and recovering the answers over again and again in the on and on. What do you want see get you attend? Alright you single guys last. With the exception of a couple of guys you have been respectful of the rules and behaved. For those that showed up! The last couple of the get togethers it was getting harder and harder to get guys to show. What is going on here? I have been accused by more than one guy on here of these<b> parties </font></b>being gay in nature with the aim of tricking straight guys to attend so that they will be used and converted becoming gay or bisexual. Does anyone believe this? What do you want see in order attend? Overall here are other concerns I have, First off, Home. I have the feeling that some folks have turned their noses up at house. I know its an old Farm House, but its what I have. I have been working on it so perhaps it has not shown its best side always. I am sorry if I have let you down there. Many Hotels from understanding are now cracking down on<b> parties. </font></b>Besides You can moan and scream at place and not get a phone from the front desk! Putting together a party is time consuming. So do I charge more to have some extra cleaning done? Do I put a limit on the length of phone calls? How do I get more Couples and single woman? You may laugh at this but do I charge more? Have I not charged enough? Am I being to cheap? I am looking for answers. To any groups there with advice, I welcome your input. |
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Maybe you will have to limit single guys to maybe 5. That may make the couples and single ladies feel safer. The few that want more guys may just have to make sacrifices for the sake of the group. Your charge is on par with other parties, but maybe having your house professionally cleaned might not hurt as you, like myself, live a bachelor lifestyle and don't always notice the dust and cobwebs about.
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1/30/2020 12:23 am |
Just a suggestion, because I am crazy like that but maybe if you had a couple of women and couples only parties that way they could get comfortable with the idea and some of the solo women could meet other women both also solo and as part of a couple and they might also see that they have allies at the scene because maybe the only thing more intimidating than approaching and group of leering men might be the thought of "What if they are all not interested?" Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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I suggest you go get a Blog Mailbox: here is how [post 4074810] (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Maybe you will have to limit single guys to maybe 5. That may make the couples and single ladies feel safer. The few that want more guys may just have to make sacrifices for the sake of the group. Your charge is on par with other parties, but maybe having your house professionally cleaned might not hurt as you, like myself, live a bachelor lifestyle and don't always notice the dust and cobwebs about.
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Just a suggestion, because I am crazy like that but maybe if you had a couple of women and couples only parties that way they could get comfortable with the idea and some of the solo women could meet other women both also solo and as part of a couple and they might also see that they have allies at the scene because maybe the only thing more intimidating than approaching and group of leering men might be the thought of "What if they are all not interested?"
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I suggest you go get a Blog Mailbox: here is how [post 4074810]
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1/31/2020 12:36 am |
Thank you for extending the invitation but I have come to see that I don't rise to the level of attractiveness required to garner the attention of the women that I am attracted to and that matters a lot to me, so while I have kept the account . . .mostly to just spout off at random I have accepted that I am not and maybe never will be ready to meet anyone Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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I have hosted women at both an older farm house, that is in our family, and my current residence. Most prefer the older farm house because of the secludedness not so much for the appearance. But they are from the area and used to having neighbors a ways away. Depending on where your couples and women come from it may seem out of place. Say someone from Toledo might not do as well in a country house in Fremont. The distance from home and surrounding help might scare them off. As far as charging, nothing is free. When I attend I always attempt to contribute some ways. Either in monetary or help ( cleaning up afterwards or providing some sort of food and drink). I think it's only right considering someone is putting all the time and effort into arranging the event. I can't speak for most single guys but I'm ususally true to my word. If I say I'm going to show I show up. But I always respond based on 100% certaninty. If I'm the least bit unsure I always turn down. But I like Yours 4a Knight's idea. have a women and couples party. I think if the women become comfortable being around other women and develp a friend ship it'll inevitably make them more comfortable to start including more guys.
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Ok heres a thought, I know I might get back lash for this but what about the single guys that you normally invite? Maybe some are too intimidating for the women? I've met some women that were intimidated because of me for multiple reasons. Some find my age too young, or because I'm 6'5" tall they don't find it that practical because of some of the weird angles I make in certain positions. I'm also a bit chubbier than some and not hung just average sized down below. Maybe they figure if they're going to make time to go to a party they want that " hot ripped stud" and not mr average jo that most are already getting.
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I have hosted women at both an older farm house, that is in our family, and my current residence. Most prefer the older farm house because of the secludedness not so much for the appearance. But they are from the area and used to having neighbors a ways away. Depending on where your couples and women come from it may seem out of place. Say someone from Toledo might not do as well in a country house in Fremont. The distance from home and surrounding help might scare them off. As far as charging, nothing is free. When I attend I always attempt to contribute some ways. Either in monetary or help ( cleaning up afterwards or providing some sort of food and drink). I think it's only right considering someone is putting all the time and effort into arranging the event. I can't speak for most single guys but I'm ususally true to my word. If I say I'm going to show I show up. But I always respond based on 100% certaninty. If I'm the least bit unsure I always turn down. But I like Yours 4a Knight's idea. have a women and couples party. I think if the women become comfortable being around other women and develp a friend ship it'll inevitably make them more comfortable to start including more guys.
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