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Starting Over here at Adult Friend Finders  

rm_carpecouple 56M/42F
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7/12/2015 1:07 am
Starting Over here at Adult Friend Finders


Well, I feel since my wife and I originally started this account almost 2 years ago and then shortly after dropped actively following it I should offer some understanding for those curious. Almost a week after this account was started I found a lump on my breast which of course caused concerns and reprioritized our focus away from this. By the time the matter was resolved (and thankfully it was not a tumour, still a nasty scare though) some other personal issues for us came up and between them and too many other distraction it has taken this long to get back to this. At the moment I, the husband am the main seeker, mind my my wife is still interested, but as I noted unlike myself she is very new to this sort of thing, whereas in my younger days I was extremely active with both genders, and at times something of a cum dumpster for some, like I said in the description in this profile, something of a cum slut.

It has been a very long time since I have had a chance to enjoy this side of myself, and she has been pushing me to get out and find some guy(s) to play with, as for her that side of me was a major part of who I was, and it bothers her to see me not fulfilling that side. So I am more than willing to start trying to meet with guys/couples interested, although I will prefer a little socialization first, if we seem to hit it off well together I am not adverse to first date sucking and fucking should we agree for both/all of us.

I want a couple of things understood up front though. I am someone with a smaller than average cock, it is only 3-4 inches, but the diameter is 1-1.5 so there is some thickness. I had a vasectomy in the past so alas I cannot shoot lots of cum anymore. I keep my body clean shaven, used to drag dress when I was younger, and still will wear female clothes when opportunity arises, and I always wear panties these days, simply because I find them more comfortable. I am somewhat on the heavier side, about 235 on a 5'9" height, which is why I said I was ample but not BBM, I would use that for those that can also be fairly described as obese and I am not quite that far gone. I used to be a cocksucking machine, but I am so out of practice that I know I will have to relearn my deep throating all over again...sigh.

I will be loading pictures over the next while from the neck down to start so as to show how I look. I am not into false advertising, nor promising more than I can deliver, and hope that is the same for those that choose to reply to me. I have always had a very playful attitude towards sex in all its glories, and I am fine with most anything within general reason short of physical harm, scat, animals, and dead bodies, although things like BDSM I have always been very selective about who I trust enough for, fair warning.

I am also willing to interact with women who are interested and accept my description, and for them I will make this part clear as well. I am as orally biased for women as I am for men, I love to eat pussy, suck and nibble of clits, nipples, and tongue over bodies as much as I love to suck cock and feel hot cum either in my mouth, down my throat, or on my face, depending on circumstances. I am also fairly<b> skilled </font></b>at using my fingers for finding things like G-spots and even in some cases helping women have that female ejaculation/spurting, although I will admit I am a little rusty, but I suspect I will pick it all back up very quickly. I am more looking for men, but I am willing to consider women if they find what they hear/see of me of interest, but as I said my main focus at the moment is more for males.

So, there you have my first blog post, my/our apologies for being dormant as an account for so long, and the fact that at the moment it is mainly just me, the husband actively seeking playmates, although if I find a good match the wife is still interested in considering, and this also applies for both men and women, but I will be the initial test case. This is not btw about control issues, just that she had a very traumatic history when she was much younger and therefore she is much more shall we say cautious about this, still interested and seriously so, but also cautious because of said history. She would not be willing to try though if she had not seriously thought this through, so please do not fret on that score.

Well, there you all have it, over the next while we shall see where things go here at FriendFinder-x. BTW, I hope it is also obvious I tend to be a bit of a talker, but I try not to be boring and I can listen as well as I babble, but I tend to be a sociable person, especially once comfortable with someone. Thank you all for your time and consideration, and I hope this isn't in the definition of personal ad, but if it is, I apologize and accept the consequences of having this taken down, but I am hopeful it is not. Further entries will be more about specific sexual topics of interest and such, but since we were gone for so long so soon after we started I felt a longer detailed explanation was appropriate, and also giving further details on the current status for us.

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