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So … You want to play with me :) 7-23-2015
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So … You want to play with me :) 7-23-2015 So, you have seen my profile or picture, and You want to play with me, fuck me, photograph me, or use me as Your slave. The following information will tell You all You need to know to arrange how. I am writing this so I don't have to keep repeating myself in every email I receive where someone writes to tell me they want to fuck me. First... You must either live in Maryland, or be close to Maryland and willing to drive here or visit the area frequently. Lets face it... Your not going to fly out to visit me. You must be free of STDs and drug free (I don't care about pot). I don't care about age (as long as legal), race, nor sexual identity. I do prefer attractive partners... if You are not... You better be very creative in some kinky way. I'm not really sure at times what specifically I find “attractive”, but I know it when I see it. If i'm not attracted to You, You can usually compensate for it by appealing to some of my fantasies. I prefer to meet You at a bdsm munch. If Your too shy to go to a bdsm munch, Your probably not kinky enough for me. I'm also not going to hang around someplace for three hours for a no-show person who chickened out. I am very open to real life meeting, being used in bondage, S&M, pee play, group play, and posing for explicit video or<b> photography. </font></b>While I am open to just about any play that won't land me in jail, as with all good things, there are some issues. While I am more than happy to talk to anyone about their fantasies or what they would like to do with me, I would encourage You to read the following before asking me about a real life encounter. In case You skipped reading my profile, I am a bi-sexual / Panssexual transsexual male to female in a wheelchair due to a rare neuro-muscular condition called SMA or Spinal Muscular Atrophy for short. If Your not into an effeminate male who is in a wheelchair, then i'm obviously not for You. My disability is quite severe, so I want You to totally understand my physical limitations. My condition causes all the muscles in my body to be very very weak. I can not walk, stand, raise my arms above my head, dress nor undress without help. Outside of my wheelchair which is specially designed for me, I am very floppy and would have difficulty sitting. I am a bit like a big rag doll. This makes me especially vulnerable as I do not have the physical ability to fight back if You don't pay attention to my safe-word. Any physical encounters outside my wheelchair would probably require either positioning me or using some form of restraint to position me. You would also have to be able to lift me, and dress or undress me. Whomever I played with would have to be willing to change my clothes...dress me up feminine if desired... work with removing my catheter. I normally use a “Texas” external catheter which is connected to a urinary bag hidden on my chair. When play was over, it would be necessary to re-dress me in the same manner I arrived and re-attach my catheter so that my parents who I rely upon would not question why I was not dressed the same as I arrived. If the play was messy, this would include washing or cleaning me up. Dressing generally takes some time when done the first time, although it is not difficult. If it were not for the fact that I rely on my parents for my day to day care, i'd be less concerned about this. I weigh under 120 pounds, but if You are not physically able to lift that weight alone, You would have to be willing to include a third person. Contacting me can sometimes be difficult. I do not give out my phone number until I meet someone in person, and I hate to talk on the telephone. I also have almost no privacy at home. Unfortunately, under normal circumstances, especially for a first time meeting, I can not host. My house has a lot of people that come and go during the day. If things progressed, it might be possible to play at my home as I do have a somewhat private area when people are not over, but it would be spontaneous and only after I knew You very well. The biggest issue to solve is my transportation and where to meet to play. As i don't drive and my wheelchair is too big and heavy to transport via car, it is difficult to get public wheelchair transit in the county, we would have to work out a plan on how to meet and somehow get to a hotel. While I only weigh about 120 pounds, my wheelchair easily tops 600 pounds... so don't imagine tossing it in the back of Your car or truck. Unfortunately, with my disability, it requires me to coordinate someone dropping me off somewhere with a wheelchair van. Usually, either my father has to drop me off somewhere, or he has to trust someone with the keys to his van for them to take me somewhere. If I have him drop me off somewhere, i'd have to come up with a believable excuse why he has to drop me off somewhere. I'd rather my family not know about my sexuality, so this can be difficult. Alternatively, one could meet me at the bdsm munch several times (my dad drops me off there as he thinks it is an Art council meeting). After a few introductions at the “art council”, he'd probably feel comfortable lending keys to drive me somewhere if I were to tell him I was going to the movies or something. This would probably require him talking to You and him showing how to use his van as he is very particular about whom he lends his keys to. The timing would also have to be carefully arranged as I have an attendant who usually washes and dresses me in the morning and who comes to put me to bed at night. Unfortunately, as it sounds, this can be very complicated for a casual encounter. For long term bdsm training, over time it would get easier, but for a couple of brief sexual meetings, it would be very difficult to arrange. I am collared... but my Domme currently lives in another state and is thus far online only. I would love to be a full time slave to Her, but for now, it does not seem possible. If You were interested in serious long term ownership... I would have to think things over and discuss with my Domme. For now, She lets me play with males and transsexuals and I would have to ask permission before playing with another female sexually. I mentioned that my family does not know about my sexuality... and I would like to keep it that way. It is more like a don't ask, don't tell sortof thing. They probably suspect I am bi or trans... and they would probably be ok with it... but they are in such poor health, i'd just rather not bringing up the topic. If Your a Dom into blackmail... You can just forget about this. They already suspect i'm kinky... You'd just be confirming it for them. As mentioned above, I am interested in being used in erotic<b> photography </font></b>or video. For photos and video, You must be willing to give me a copy of all images. You may post my image in adult websites such as Fetlife, but not Facebook or vanilla sites. If You plan to sell or use the images for profit, You must talk to me first for consent. I do plan to post images in adult sites and possibly pay sites. If You do not want to be in such sites, don't appear in the photograph or video. If You want me to bring toys along, I may be able to do this, including supplying camera, bondage gear, and clothing. If You have a particular fantasy You would like to fulfill, I am willing to dress in any outfit You supply. I wear a size medium, 32 waist and size 8 and half woman's shoe (6 and half mens). I don't have any experience yet with makeup. If You want to doll me up, You would have to supply and apply the make-up as well as remove it when the play session was complete. As a general rule with things You use on me, if You put it on me or in me, i'd may request to keep it unless it was expensive bondage equipment. So if You want me to wear a cute pair of expensive high heels or stick a dildo up my bum, if You expect to get them back, You should ask me ahead of time. You would be responsible for hotel room, clean up and buying whatever You wanted to use on me. I am open to being used in bondage, piss play, full nudity, (some) public play and S&M. If You want to do anything to me however that is going to leave permanent or noticeable marks, You better be willing to abduct me and keep me as a live in slave because I don't want to have to explain my whip marks to my family or attendant. I am very open to having voyeurs. For me, due to my complete vulnerability and need for assistance to get to and from my wheelchair, I find safety in numbers. So, if You were willing to let others join us or watch, that is a big plus. I am curious about public play, but don't want to risk arrest. If You want to use me in public play, it would have to be in a low-risk controlled environment. Please email me and ask me about any questions or concerns You might have. If You still think You'd like to meet with me... I hope to see You soon! Hugs, erica  |
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