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rm_NOPoet30 73M
29 posts
9/2/2015 1:30 pm
No Response

Have you seen an increase in the # of no responses or no replies lately? I sure have! Not that long ago, if you IMed or Eed someone, you would get a reply - even if it was a 'No Thank You' or Maybe Later. Now it seems the ppl are just rude or Socially inept.
Yes
No
Not Really
Who Cares


rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
9/2/2015 2:04 pm

LampJamesLamp is correct. When my profile was up and running I would get 100 to 150 emails A DAY from men, most of whom didn't read the profile or didn't give a crap and were playing numbers hoping eventually they would get laid. All that does is clog up OUR inboxes and we get ticked off by it because of the blatant disregard to the profile and our preferences. Even now with my profile saying I am not available and to NOT contact me for a meeting or a date I still get a few each week of guys that think I am a liar and/or they are all that great and shove dick photos at me as if I am some mindless piece of crap that would just screw him because he shoved his dick at me. ALL men have dicks.. if you ARE a dick forget it.

There is an endless number of guys that will continue to banter and try to cajole the women when they politely say no thank you as if they will convince her to change her mind. Follow that with the a**holes that insult us because we said no. Sadly, there is a myriad of reasons why a woman won't answer. With the sheer volume I would have needed a secretary.

Check out my blogs to get an idea of what you are up against and realize it is mostly the men that are causing you this trouble....

#1...Best Complimentary Emails wupdates
#2...Emailslame, boring, or just plain stupidwupdates
#3...A polite No Thank You can cause thiswupdates
#4...Unsolicited HATE Emails no prior contactwupdates

Unfortunately the internet is not a nice place as we wish it would be. We as women do get tired of hearing "I have a huge dick, go all night, lick my own eyebrows, do various positions, and no one is ever disappointed" over and over. Trust me, MOST men think this and apparently think that nothing else matters other than they have a dick and we have a hole and most women NEED more than that to have sex with a guy. I am not saying a relationship and/or marriage, but we do have to at least like you. Sex positions and how horny you are is not what I mean either. Best of luck fellas...


itsallfantasy 57F  
1150 posts
9/2/2015 2:09 pm

I honestly, not to upset you, but I don't feel I need to say no thank you to someone that is not what I want when my profile specifically says what I want and don't want. I have men that get all ticked off about it when I specifically say I am here for exhibitionism ONLY. That means ONLY ONLY ONLY, no meeting you, no hoooking up with you, nooooooo nothing. I get on cam and that is it. If a guy contacts me I don't think I should have to politely say "didn't you read my profile?"

For the record, even standard members CAN see the intro lines and I have it there as well. Anyone just slamming out random emails to people who may or may not be what that person is looking for is rather ignorant to me in the first place, Just sayin.


rm_NOPoet30 73M
88 posts
9/2/2015 2:18 pm

I can see that now. Makes sense - TY old chap.


rm_NOPoet30 73M
88 posts
9/2/2015 2:25 pm

TY Fanta & I do at least look at the tags. If they seem interesting - I'll find a way to make contact or wait till I see her on IM. AS to hitting on a 'IM an exhibit' or 'I luv Women' -which pisses me off/as if there isn't enuff damn competition / I personally [some do I guess] will not bother .


Stay_In_Reality 56M  
2209 posts
9/2/2015 3:51 pm

I haven't noticed much difference really, but then again I rarely got a reply anyway If I don't get a response then I tend to adopt the attitude "no worries, their loss". Women are inundated with mail here, us guys have to realise that. To reply to everyone would take up too much time I imagine.


extra1980 61M
301 posts
9/4/2015 7:49 pm

No response is also a response


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