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Dominance doesn’t work without adoration.  

fungirljust4u 54F
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9/2/2015 10:29 am

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Dominance doesn’t work without adoration.
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rm_Kink_Man 51M
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9/3/2015 8:59 pm

 Sadly, being in Malaysia does cause a number of problems for people in the lifestyle as there are far too many fakes who think its an easy way to get sex, and assume that tying up a woman and smacking her is all that's required.

I have always believed that the lifestyle is 90% mental and only 10% physical, as the physical sensations are meaningless without the correct mental state and will never come close to achieving a true sense of bliss, so to speak. The rule you mentioned about adoration is one small part of the dynamics, as a slave could adore someone deeply, but if that person was not dominant AND also capable of fulfilling her submissive personality/needs, it would end up being somewhat frustrating for the slave, as she does not achieve complete fulfilment.

In the world we live in these relationships are entered on a consensual basis, so it is something that is meant to satisfy and fulfil the needs of both parties. So does that mean that the Master is serving the slave also?? LOL

That question always gets a lot of funny responses, but the simple fact is that it is true in its own way. For a Master to keep his slave, he would have to ensure that he desires and fulfilled thus making her not only enjoy her slavery but also crave it more and crave to serve him better. This only is possible if the Master has taken the time to understand the mental aspects of the lifestyle AND the slaves character/personality/desires.

What you want to do is catch the one that not only makes you adore him, but makes you crave to serve him in multiple ways OUTSIDE of sexual activities.

Hope that all hasn't come out as gibberish LOL


fungirljust4u replies on 9/4/2015 5:35 am:
Ty Sir for clear explanation of this relationship. I do believe for this to work it has to be effort on both side.. If one side decided to just take and not giving. this will not work well.
From many people i've speak to.. I found that many don't really understand this relationship... a lot.. I mean a lot of guys use this to make them look powerful and desirable to women.
I've monitor few so called Master, Dom or DDom on other site and it frighten me how many using this prospect to get very young girls too be their sexual victim and being cast aside after they are bored ... and move on..

well like i said I respect everyone's preferences and Lifestyles. I myself on the submissive side too. But I have to trust the guy before I shall submit and not just being sexual arouse.. cos thats easy to do.. trust are hard to earn.. and I feel a Master, Dom or DDom must earn the trust ..

pal334 69M  
45821 posts
9/3/2015 4:03 am
The jerks that "pound their chests" and act like jerks in the chat rooms are the wanna bes and actually nauseate me. As you remember from that chat room it infuriates me. A womans submission in the cases you describe, is her gift to the man and must be cherished and cared for
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fungirljust4u replies on 9/3/2015 5:28 am:
So true Pal the Men should consider such submission as the Gift and they should adore it rather than abuse it

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