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Blogs > freogirl66 > Ramblings from an Aussie woman

Aggressive men  

freogirl66 57F
24 posts
9/3/2015 7:22 pm

Last Read:
9/4/2015 4:27 am
Aggressive men

It's frightening when you see how much aggression can come out of a man from a polite "no thanks".

I'm often on IM. I tend to have it on while I'm doing some Uni work - sometimes more distracted with it than I should be!

I can't believe how often I am messaged by a man from another country or state. My profile actually specifies I'm only interested in 'local guys' but who reads profiles hey?

The conversation usually starts with "Hi, how are you?" etc Sometimes I will politely say, "Fine thanks" and hope they will be on their way. But then the conversation will turn in to a series of "????" and my, "I'm really sorry, I'm not interested in chatting to someone from another state or country"...then the abuse starts. Usually I cop, "It's your loss." This morning I got "You look old and sloppy, like every guy has had a ride of you." Then, "I only messaged you because I felt sorry for you."

Isn't that a bit frightening?? women don't tend to like abusive males (well, they shouldn't)

It's illogical reaction to being<b> rejected </font></b>by someone you are never likely to meet, due to rejection. How do these men view women here? are we their cyber punching bags?

You can't win. You either have to block half the guys who message you or put up wth their abuse...

Stang65 59M
16 posts
7/4/2016 10:56 pm

 In my opinion, I reckon that its damned civil of you to reply for starters as there are many women that will ignore (and men I suspect ) I would say that 8 of ten will ignore you (or me anyways) If they answer, just like in real life you soon get an idea if they are interested. If not have some decency and back off, a forced conversation is worse than none.
Sometimes when I see the way some men carry on on this site, it makes me somewhat ashamed for the gender


freogirl66 57F
38 posts
9/4/2015 4:27 am

 I've actually noticed it comes more from non-paying members. Perhaps they have less to lose?

thanks guys


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