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Satisfy Any Woman
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Satisfy Any Woman Sex is all about intuition, because every person is different and we all crave different things in the sack. It’s about being perceptive, wanting to satisfy your partner just as much as you want to get off yourself. You have to listen to her body, follow the signals and use every ounce of confidence you can muster. Kissing Kissing is deathly important. If you come in hard, suck the tongue out of our mouths and leave our face wet and gross, we won’t bother having sex with you. We’ll walk. Kissing should be a cat and mouse game. Chase her kisses and follow where she goes. Slip the tongue in after she gives you a little signal, use your tongue wisely and remember — you can go from alpha to beta to one kiss. Use your hands. Hold her head and neck gently and tilt it into yourself. Kiss her ears, her cheeks, her neck, her collarbone. Touch her body as you kiss her, sliding your hands over her back and shoulders. Tease. Play with her. Pull away, toy back. Kissing is rad when you treat it like a tease. This is the pre-game time: the moments when you let her body know what she will be in for once the clothes come off. Undressing Use your touch. Sometimes we want our clothes to be ripped off with fever and strength. Sometimes we want our shirts slid over our heads like a scene from some soft-core porn flick. Again, I can’t stress this enough, but you have to feel the mood. I remember one time my boyfriend whipped out a knife from his belt and cut my underwear off of me. It was so epic and hot I could have fainted there on the spot. [Editor's Note: We do not recommend this unless you're in a long-term relationship. Always use caution when handling knives, swords, etc.] Take advantage of our bodies, and I don’t mean this in a derogatory way, but touch us. Play with our breasts, stomach, ass. Feel our perfect womanly curves. How you get us from clothed to naked is important, so have fun with it. What can you do to shock us? To tease us? To make us want to tell our friends about it the next day? You would want us to do the same to you, now wouldn’t you? Party Favors Nothing is worse than when a man tries to jam his cock inside of you when you are not wet and stimulated. Sometimes a woman can be completely aroused, but not be wet. Our bodies are complicated (just ask Dr. Meredith Chivers), so I suggest having lube on hand. Sex with lubricants is always better, and there’s nothing wrong with needing the artificial assistance. Lube is a man’s best friend. Get Down Sometimes sex can last for hours like a marathon, and other times it’s like a sprint. When it’s just a quickie, that doesn’t mean that attention to our needs flies out the window with your orgasm. A woman’s body is complicated, but you are a man, damn it. Use your hands when you are inside of us. Play with her clit while you grind away. Flip us over when we least expect it. Listen to our moans and talk to us. “What do you want me to do?” or “I’m going to do this...” Talk is always good. When I blow a guy, I like to tease. I change my motions from hard to soft, I toy with his cock, slapping it against my cheek. I look right up into his eyes, letting him know I am enjoying what I am doing, that his pleasure is important to me. This gives us a connection that stimulates both of our senses. It’s so crucial to be attentive to your partner. When you are having sex with a woman, don’t just focus on the dictionary definition of heterosexual intercourse, but use your body creatively. Go down on us, for God's sake. Your hands and mouth should explore every part of us. Sex is all power. It’s all about connecting through touch. The Climax Most likely you are going to cum before she does. This is just what happens sometimes. If this is so, please remember to revel in your cum-drunk aftermath, but not for so long you forget about her pleasure. Remember the wise words of Louis C.K.: “If you fuck a woman well, she will leave you alone.” Most women can get off from clitoral stimulation. For some of us, it takes a few tries. Some women perhaps don’t feel comfortable enough with you yet to get off right away and that’s OK. Suss it out, but test the waters and follow her lead. Go down on her. Is she responding? Is she giving you guidance and opening her legs wider or is she clenching with an uneasiness? Perception. Intuition. Sex is like a conversation with your naked bodies. You got to just listen before you speak, man. Happy sexing, guys! |
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