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OMG...I Try Really Hard!!! But YUCK!!!  

GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1809 posts
3/19/2017 8:18 pm
OMG...I Try Really Hard!!! But YUCK!!!


I try to be open minded and not too judgmental. I really do!

But earlier today while on the IM...I looked at a message I received from a young guy about mid 20's, if I remember correctly.

His message to me was actually sort of a question really.

He says/asks me: "How's this for kinky? I masturbated in front of my mother"!!

Since he framed it as a question..I answered him back and my words to him were:

Honey that's not kinky....that's just sick!! And I got off the IM real quick because I was just disgusted, and didn't even wanna see if he responded honestly.

I can't even fathom mom sitting there watching her masturbate in front of her!! Holy shit...did she say anything? Did she encourage him or cheer him on?

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh...just YUCK...YUCK...YUCK!!!

I have four sons and I'm for sure certain not a one of them would even consider that! Sure they spent a long time in the shower or bathroom on occasion..and I figured they were having a little "alone time"....lol

I'm all for masturbation...hell I do it myself sometimes when I feel the need. But I keep that private or enjoy mutual masturbation with a partner.....

Soooooooooooooo.....what are your thoughts on this young man? Am I judging him (and perhaps mom) too harshly? Is this just kinky or downright yucky?


Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/19/2017 8:19 pm

This place just makes me SMH sometimes!!!....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


pleasure4all51 69M
47 posts
3/19/2017 8:27 pm

Not at all. Either he or his mother is sick to allow that to happen. Who knows how much farther it will go


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
3/19/2017 8:31 pm

Definitely yucky not kinky. And sadly, just sending a message like that probably got him off.😖

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


david10006 48M
2 posts
3/19/2017 8:43 pm

if it's two consenting adults...let them do whatever they want.


52reddog 73M
456 posts
3/19/2017 8:47 pm

Hi . . . 1st time visitor here . . . nope . . . I have a kink (or 10) myself . . . but . . . THAT'S just plain WARPED!!! . . . it makes you really question the mother/son relationship, doesn't it??? . . . and, imho . . . I really have to wonder about the self-respect levels of BOTH of those people . . . geeeezzzzz (smh)

Hugs if ya want 'em


porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
3/19/2017 9:23 pm

I would have did the same thing you did, geez that is sick, I hope he was kidding or trying to get a wow out of you, if not mom and son need some professional help fast


ManticoreEye 52M
616 posts
3/19/2017 9:32 pm

Ew.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
3/19/2017 9:44 pm

Hi tam18974...

thanks for the post...

I'm not here to judge... I read what is posted... and sometimes I connect with people... sometimes... there's nothing going on... just move along... so to speak...

I guess the more you interact, the more opportunities there are to meet people that have very different tastes than we might have in a lifetime...

you never know...

as I read blogs from others here... I have noticed a change since coming here two plus years ago... some have expanded their horizons... many have disappeared... but, there I still have a fascination reading some of the bloggers that post...

thanks again...

have a great week!

Dan Fogelberg - "Hard to Say"

Lucky at love
Well, maybe so
There's still a lot of things
You'll never know
Like why each time
The sky begins to snow
You cry
You're faithful to her
In your careless way
So you miss her when
She's far away
But every time you think
You've got it straight
You fall
You face the future
With a weary past
Those dreams you banked upon
Are fading fast
You know you love her
But it may not last
Your fear
It's never easy
And it's never clear
Who's to navigate
And who's to steer
So you flounder
Drifting ever near the rocks
It's hard to say
Where love went wrong
It's hard to say just when
It's hard to walk away from love
It may never come again
You do your best
To keep your hand in play
And try to keep
Those lonesome…

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s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
3/19/2017 10:44 pm

I don't know what it is but
somehow I can believe it.

Maybe it was encouraged
at some point in his life
through an observance
or in a house where adults
play!Was it his account?
It could be some sort sexual deviance that
drives him to become more bolder with all the
dates he has with his hands.

It would be rather uncouth!

Using more than all the road!


northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
3/19/2017 10:54 pm

As tresennui suggested, it has just a message for effect. The little shit was going for shock value.

It didn't happen. Just a troll.

Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


Deeindeed2016 48F
2 posts
3/20/2017 1:04 am

that's nasty....not sure what/who he's trying to attract with that statement.


let_me_see1 64M

3/20/2017 3:48 am

Let's just pray he wasn't raised in an environment of that thinking. Hopefully, he was just making it up in hopes of the shock value gaining attention. If it is what he did or continues to do, he needs help....and the mother needs even more!

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mc_justmc 63M

3/20/2017 4:30 am

gross! did you know they have a group here called, "Dad and Sons" ? there are some twisted fucks here, for sure!


greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
3/20/2017 5:18 am

It sure sounds sick to me as well, but as concenting adults, they can do what they like behind closed doors. There is porn genres dedicated to this, and many other subjects, that would make me and many others feel sick, but I understand that there are people out there with twisted minds. They probably call me twisted, for never masturbating in front of my mother.


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/20/2017 5:13 pm

    Quoting pleasure4all51:
    Not at all. Either he or his mother is sick to allow that to happen. Who knows how much farther it will go
Thanks...I think they both have to be a little whacked in the head! I'm hoping for his sake he wakes up and realizes that kinda stuff borders on ....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/20/2017 5:15 pm

    Quoting tresennui:
    Definitely yucky not kinky. And sadly, just sending a message like that probably got him off.😖
Yup...it is definitely yucky...and sad! For him and mom....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/20/2017 5:18 pm

    Quoting david10006:
    if it's two consenting adults...let them do whatever they want.
I'm okay with two consenting adults having fun. BUT not when it's a son and his mother, or a father and his daughter or a brother and sister etc.

That's called and just disgusting in my opinion...but you are entitled to yours.

Thanks for responding....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/20/2017 5:21 pm

    Quoting 52reddog:
    Hi . . . 1st time visitor here . . . nope . . . I have a kink (or 10) myself . . . but . . . THAT'S just plain WARPED!!! . . . it makes you really question the mother/son relationship, doesn't it??? . . . and, imho . . . I really have to wonder about the self-respect levels of BOTH of those people . . . geeeezzzzz (smh)

    Hugs if ya want 'em
Thanks for the hugs....

Kinks are okay as long as both people are into them..but yes...his was not a normal kinda kink. It borders on and that is warped!

Thanks for your input...I appreciate it

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/20/2017 5:22 pm

    Quoting  :

You bet it is!!

Thanks for your response!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/20/2017 5:24 pm

    Quoting porterpiper1:
    I would have did the same thing you did, geez that is sick, I hope he was kidding or trying to get a wow out of you, if not mom and son need some professional help fast
Professional help sounds about right to me if he was telling the truth!

Thanks for your opinion and response

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/20/2017 5:27 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree some people are into things I might feel are too much and if they both agree upon it...then I'm not gonna judge!

In my opinion is never okay...but it is just MY opinion!

Thank you for yours!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/20/2017 5:29 pm

LOL....short and to the point....

I agree.....ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!

Thanks for your response

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/20/2017 5:31 pm

    Quoting easy_going2014:
    Hi tam18974...

    thanks for the post...

    I'm not here to judge... I read what is posted... and sometimes I connect with people... sometimes... there's nothing going on... just move along... so to speak...

    I guess the more you interact, the more opportunities there are to meet people that have very different tastes than we might have in a lifetime...

    you never know...

    as I read blogs from others here... I have noticed a change since coming here two plus years ago... some have expanded their horizons... many have disappeared... but, there I still have a fascination reading some of the bloggers that post...

    thanks again...

    have a great week!

    Dan Fogelberg - "Hard to Say"

    Lucky at love
    Well, maybe so
    There's still a lot of things
    You'll never know
    Like why each time
    The sky begins to snow
    You cry
    You're faithful to her
    In your careless way
    So you miss her when
    She's far away
    But every time you think
    You've got it straight
    You fall
    You face the future
    With a weary past
    Those dreams you banked upon
    Are fading fast
    You know you love her
    But it may not last
    Your fear
    It's never easy
    And it's never clear
    Who's to navigate
    And who's to steer
    So you flounder
    Drifting ever near the rocks
    It's hard to say
    Where love went wrong
    It's hard to say just when
    It's hard to walk away from love
    It may never come again
    You do your best
    To keep your hand in play
    And try to keep
    Those lonesome…
Like I said...I try not to judge what other people may be into.

But in my opinion... is never really okay!!

Thanks for your response and your opinion...

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/20/2017 5:33 pm

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    I don't know what it is but
    somehow I can believe it.

    Maybe it was encouraged
    at some point in his life
    through an observance
    or in a house where adults
    play!Was it his account?
    It could be some sort sexual deviance that
    drives him to become more bolder with all the
    dates he has with his hands.

    It would be rather uncouth!
Can't argue with your thoughts....

Just disgusting to me for sure!

Thanks for your thoughts and response

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/20/2017 5:35 pm

    Quoting northshoretake2:
    As tresennui suggested, it has just a message for effect. The little shit was going for shock value.

    It didn't happen. Just a troll.
It could have been...but honestly for his mind to even go there is just nasty to me!

Thanks for your opinion...all are appreciated

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


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