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HUH...I Never Knew or Even Thought......  

GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1810 posts
10/23/2017 4:32 pm
HUH...I Never Knew or Even Thought......

I came across this the other day, I don't even remember where.....

BUT.........

Boy the internet is certainly filled with all kinds of interesting and strange information, or sometimes things that just make you shake your head and say “HUH...I never knew”?........maybe didn't want to know....lol

Apparently this is not something that is actually for sale, but was part of an art exhibit in Milan in 2015. I am kind of curious though and wonder how well this would have sold if Mr. Sturkenboom had decided to make it available for sale.



This Dildo Can Be Filled With The Ashes Of Your Loved One



For most of us, it seems that discussing sexuality and death in the same breath is not something one would normally do, but this is something that Dutch designer Mark Sturkenboom seems determined to challenge.

His controversial 21 Grams project featured a glass dildo that can hold exactly 21 grams of a cremated loved one’s ashes. In 1901, an American doctor named Duncan MacDougall determined that the soul weighed 21 grams by weighing elderly people immediately before and after they died from tuberculosis.

When unlocked, with a key that can be worn as a pendant, the front of the box forms two panels that fold out. One of these holds a built-in perfume/cologne container with a rubber diffuser attached.

A drawer in the base of the box can be used for keepsakes like a handkerchief or small scarf. The inside of the lid also features a round storage compartment for a ring, which is hidden behind two hinged flaps that form the shape of a shield when closed.

The hollow glass dildo rests at the back of the main compartment, and the small golden urn is slotted into the bottom of this and closed with a brass seal.
Music from the user's iPhone is amplified by the box, to perhaps play some of their favorite music, with the sound transmitted through perforations arranged in the shape of two forget-me-not flowers on the inside of the box.




"By bringing different nostalgic moments together like the scent of his cologne, ‘their’ music and perhaps reviving the moment he gave her her first ring, it opens a window to go back to moments of love and intimacy," Sturkenboom says.



Hmmmm…..I honestly don’t think this is something that I would want to use if it were indeed available to buy, despite missing the closeness of a lover/husband/significant other. For me I think it it would seem a little macabre.

Sure I would miss sex and the intimacy of my lover, but if I’m feeling horny at some point after bereavement or grief has passed some, and haven’t met anyone, and I’m feeling the need to masturbate for relief of the sexual tension...I would just use some of the “regular” dildos and whatever other sex toys I would care to use. You could always fantasize and remember the good times while doing so.

Anyone think this is something you could possibly consider buying and using were it available? Or do you think it is a bit sad, strange, yucky,<b> creepy </font></b>or any other word you’d like to add.

Ya learn something new or strange every day.....



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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/23/2017 4:36 pm

Sometimes you just gotta say..............

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mufdiver69er2 63M  
1953 posts
10/23/2017 4:47 pm

creepy fits best imo..

woop woop


peterlikesplay2 67M
461 posts
10/23/2017 4:52 pm

so it can be used vaginally....or in the ash hole


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/23/2017 4:57 pm

But, is it . . . big enough?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Intrepidsmile 44M
36 posts
10/23/2017 5:09 pm

All we are is dust in the... oh my~


travelingnlonely 67M

10/23/2017 5:11 pm

now if you have a boyfriend or a new spouse ,would that be considered cheating?


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/23/2017 7:45 pm

    Quoting  :

I suppose he thought it was a nice idea...at least to enter into an art exhibit.

I do think you are most likely correct, that most women will find the idea repugnant!

It wouldn't be something I would use....

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/23/2017 7:47 pm

Yes....I think that word would work.....I don't even think I could get in the mood to use it!

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/23/2017 7:51 pm

Hahahaha....good use of word play.....

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/23/2017 7:53 pm

Hmmmmm.....I would not be looking to find out....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/23/2017 7:54 pm

LOL.....

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/23/2017 7:57 pm

    Quoting travelingnlonely:
    now if you have a boyfriend or a new spouse ,would that be considered cheating?

Hmmmm.....that is a good question.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/23/2017 8:01 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree Lala....and I suspect most women or people in general would feel the same way. Which is probably why the guy never decided to make them available for sale....

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/24/2017 6:45 am

I agree Ted and it seems like most of the commenters don't like the idea either. Not something I would use....lol

I posted because it was unusual and different....

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scot51568 55M
506 posts
10/24/2017 4:16 pm

Well, fuck my ashes!


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/28/2017 4:18 pm

LOL.....that's about what one would be doing....

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