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So Is IM Any Better?  

GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1809 posts
7/17/2020 11:46 am
So Is IM Any Better?

So I received an email in my personal email account touting the "new & improved" IM. So the question is.......

Is it REALLY? Usually the improvements are anything but.....lol

It's a serious question though! I very rarely go on the IM....crude and rude can sometimes be the order of the day/night. I'll occasionally go on the cams to chat....but again very rarely...since the same people are crude or rude on there too. But nice people too....I've had some nice conversations.

So anyway......do you use the IM? Does it seem better than previous versions? Are these alleged improvements only for gold members....or the general population....lol

I may try it out for myself....but figured I'd find out the scoop first....lol

Have fun......



Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
7/17/2020 11:47 am

Sometimes I wonder......lol

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


benard69 66M/66F  

7/17/2020 12:37 pm

Well let's just say it's not the Cadillac plan....


Velvetreality127 55F
12 posts
7/17/2020 12:52 pm

The new IM sux!!! With every upgrade, FriendFinder-x makes it worse.


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
7/17/2020 12:56 pm

I checked it out and it was an eyesore. Maybe with time, I will get used to it. But not many use IM like before. Sometimes you get a message while on the site and don't notice it later.


MatureGent4u2c 58M
17 posts
7/17/2020 1:01 pm

I don't care for the new IM and not even sure it works at all. It doesn't seem to save my preference like the old IM did. I am getting tired of paying for a messed up site.


grizz54545454 76M  
360 posts
7/17/2020 1:13 pm

no no no f$$k no


SactoNative 58F
396 posts
7/17/2020 1:14 pm

It's AWFUL! The members who are shown on IM are from another continent. Before the people listed were from the same city as the chatter.


ProfCocknCuntt 45M
603 posts
7/17/2020 1:19 pm

HORRIBLE!!!Just looks pretty .No substance at all. Typical FriendFinder-x though!


3play06 65M/118F
60 posts
7/17/2020 1:23 pm

I am gold & it sucks, just keeps getting worse


NSA6118 63M

7/17/2020 1:43 pm

Lol. IM still the same


Story435 76M
3791 posts
7/17/2020 1:44 pm

Hello!
Don't used them much because I'm not a paid member anymore. But they never work very good.
Butch


Hburgguy20 42M

7/17/2020 1:45 pm

Ims are the only real way i can reach out to anyone on here as a standard member- other than getting on cam and hoping they come to me! I don't see any major difference besides the aesthetics of the IM windows, but am hoping that more people get on and use it! Not they just need to stop charging 15 points for standard members to send an IM!


CarriedBack 56M  
144 posts
7/17/2020 2:26 pm

I am not sure whether this "new IM" system is totally launched yet--or whether they have retracted it to work out some bugs.

The design for laptops seems crisper and cleaner, and they responsiveness seems swifter. However, the iPhone interface seems to be a mess. Sometimes I open it up and the photos are HUGE, and it's not clear where to click to exit or to send a message. For now, I'll just set back and see what happens. Besides, I don't use it that ofter--mostly just to reply to members who used it to initiate a conversation with me.

To be continued....


PassionaKisses69 53M
148 posts
7/17/2020 2:28 pm

Haven't tried it. Want to give it go and see how it is?


Allhard4u50 62M
1725 posts
7/17/2020 3:38 pm

Basically it SUCKS BIG


scoupe42 60M

7/17/2020 4:17 pm

Nope!


Justme57754 57M

7/17/2020 5:44 pm

I'm just going to guess that it will freeze up and not work just like the old versions. I will just let people contact me through my mailbox in my blog. That seems safe and not having to spend 15 points just to send an IM that might not get answered seems out of sorts. Don't charge until the other person responds is my way of thinking.

Life in the Black Hills of South Dakota.


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
7/17/2020 6:04 pm

I hate it. Works with my phone but not too well on the laptop

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
7/18/2020 5:31 am

    Quoting flannel_light:
    I hate it. Works with my phone but not too well on the laptop
I found that too... on my phone it filters my preferences which primarily is distance, but on my lap top.. it shows me men from all over the world


merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
7/18/2020 3:01 pm

...every now and then it works... most of the time, it's a dead line.....


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
7/20/2020 3:44 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    Well let's just say it's not the Cadillac plan....
LOL....I don't think anything on here is the Cadillac plan...including the gold membership!

Thanks for visiting!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
7/20/2020 3:46 pm

    Quoting Velvetreality127:
    The new IM sux!!! With every upgrade, FriendFinder-x makes it worse.
So in other words....the improvements didn't improve it....lol I tend to agree with you...nothing gets better!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
7/20/2020 3:50 pm

    Quoting CedarsPrince:
    I checked it out and it was an eyesore. Maybe with time, I will get used to it. But not many use IM like before. Sometimes you get a message while on the site and don't notice it later.
I honestly don't use it often at all, so I don't have anything to compare. Unfortunately I don't think time improves anything on here.....with the exception of all the lovely ladies on FriendFinder-x.....lol

Thanks for stopping by!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
7/20/2020 3:54 pm

    Quoting MatureGent4u2c:
    I don't care for the new IM and not even sure it works at all. It doesn't seem to save my preference like the old IM did. I am getting tired of paying for a messed up site.
Hmmmm.....sounds about right, it seems FriendFinder-x's improvements are really not that at all!

I too am getting tired of paying for a site that is half assed! I only get one page of searches now...when I use to have unlimited. I don't know if THAT is a site wide issue, or just one I have.

Thanks for visiting and commenting!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
7/20/2020 3:57 pm

LOL......it's not surprising the "improvement" gets a response such as yours. I think Various Inc. (owner of FriendFinder-x) is out of touch with their members or the IT dept. is full of half trained morons.

Thanks for stopping by!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


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