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Get the Facts Straight - Don't Tell Me
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Get the Facts Straight - Don't Tell Me A statement was brought up in a forum in one of my other sites - he said " One time I thought I wanted to be a girl. I was wrong. Most guys who think they want to be a girl are wrong. Stay who you are" I thought and digested what he said - then i regurgitated from the depth of my inner being my feelings on this very close subject to me - so for you being a girl isn't your thing - so be it - at least you faced your own reality and realized that road wasn't for you - yes it is a very hard and difficult road to travel - but for you to put an exclamation point that most guys are wrong is not sitting right with me - are you wrong in enjoying the wearing of<b> hosiery </font></b>- how can you make a declarative statement to say to the contrary - I believe that it is up to each individual to the way they feel in who they are - I can only tell you how I feel - I have been Annette for many years but 24/7 for the last 11 months - I am a transsexual or transgender but I am not going through complex sex change for various reasons - In my mind I am a woman and my reflection in the mirror verifies it - I can tell you for me it has been a challenge and a very difficult road with a lot of hard training and sacrifices - but today I am a very happy person who has found the true meaning of being who I am - I would never tell anyone not to take this road or to take it - it is not as easy as putting on hose in your bed room or under ur male clothing and taking them off - I am not condemning you but let the individual decide - thanks for listening to my side - have a great day and a better tomorrow - I will and I do Annette Of course next day this brought out a rebuttal with his facts in tow - "The review of more than 100 international medical studies of "post-operative" transsexuals finds up to 20% regret transitioning and no conclusive evidence was found that shows gender reassignment surgery improves the lives of transsexuals, with many people remaining severely distressed and even suicidal after the operation, wrote David Batty in the UK Guardian. Let us address the basic assumption of the contemporary parade: the idea that exchange of one’s sex is possible. It, like the storied Emperor's New Clothes, is starkly, nakedly false. Transgendered men do not become women, nor do transgendered women become men. All (including Bruce Jenner) become feminized men or masculinized women, counterfeits or impersonators of the sex with which they “identify.” In that lies their problematic future. When “the tumult and shouting dies,” it proves not easy nor wise to live in a counterfeit sexual garb. The most thorough follow-up of sex-reassigned people—extending over thirty years and conducted in Sweden, where the culture is strongly supportive of the transgendered—documents their lifelong mental unrest. Ten to fifteen years after surgical reassignment, the suicide rate of those who had undergone sex-reassignment surgery rose to twenty times that of comparable peers". I guess he showed us a thing or two - in my elighting way i had to spew a few things out myself - so i said "I'm not here to debate with you - you are a lot smarter than I am - I will just use ur facts and what you said originally - "Most guys who think they want to be a girl are wrong". "Stay who you are". one thing I am very good is math - you can turn any set of numbers to satisfy what you are looking for - I will use your numbers and tell you this - if out of 100 - 20 or 20% were not happy and still depressed with some suicide in their future - you didn't mention the percentage out of the 20% left - I guess they didn't print that or you didn't need that in your conclusion - even if it was 100% of the 20% or higher math - 20 out of 20 - I found that 80% or 80 people that were helped and found some happiness in their desire to be the opposite gender - how many people in that 80% group would have had suicided thoughts or carried out the deed - I would have to interject it is very high - one reason why they were willing to take the hard road - so I would conclude - that 80% is very good odds - you need to google the facts you need to justify your statement - "Stay who you are" - "to each his own" as long as you're not hurting yourself or someone else is what I believe in - I know I didn't change your mine because you are set for life - I hope I made your vision wider and enjoy the view - have a great day" - Annette I received a few more messages sent directly to my home site which is not worth the time to copy here - I have not replied - no need - I'm not going to change his thinking or his attitude towards others - his mind is set and he has blinders on - i just had to tell you that it is not an easy road for most of us - we each approach it in our own way - have a great day and a better tomorrow - Annette P.S. I wonder what his thinking would be if Mistress Annette showed up - I have this feeling - lol |
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1 post 8/10/2016 4:54 am |
love the post and agree with you do what you feels right for you
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Annette, You are one special lady who have written that is in some respects very disturbing. Everyone of the Post OP TS woman I have met and in some cases I have known them when they were pre op are happy and satisfied that they went through with the operation. Several of them stated that there was significant pain immediately following the surgery. But as they look back I ahve found I have known none of the people who you suggest are twice as likely to committ suicide. Sincrerely, Fred
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Annette, You very much remind me Of an exgirlfriend who returned to california after her surgery and put an end to our relationship because she felt if I loved her I would go to California with her. This was 15 years ago and she remarried with an old boyfriend she knew from her highschool days and is very happy with the fact she went through with the surgery. I happen to feel just as sexually compatible with her before the surgery as I was with her after the surgery.
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