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Root beer beer Once again drinking alone.......would think I am single, but no I am married. He wonders why I have lost my sexy moods....... life has gotten so boring. I don't want to cheat, but why am I so left alone. Married and feeling alone. He is<b> obsessed </font></b>with sex but can't seem to know how to turn me on. Not seem to know me after so many years married. Not to know what turns me on. How does he not known this. I am not dead. He thinks I am. He is only turned on by thinking of others. He talked to others more than me. Should I be upset. Feeling frustrated. I try to tell him what I want. And he just says I am complaining...... I am telling him what I would like him to do to me and I am complaining.......not saying what I don't want to do to me ....... what I WANT to be done to me...... I don't understand ....... feeling alone...... sex alone should not be better than with someone....... trying not to give into one who wants to spend time with me........ was told that the only way a man would spend time with me would be to have sex, but for six years he will meet for coffee and has not pushed to have sex....... but would like to....... and then my man of a very long time still can't figure out what turns me on or when I cum........ |
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Sorry to hear that. It seems to be common in long-term couples. One member or the other "forgets" how to arouse the other or else interests change and someone is left out in the cold wondering what happened. I hope you can figure out a way past this.
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I agree with the previous poster in that this does seem common in long-term couples. Interests change, or the "spark" goes away. I am wishing for you to find a way out of this, too. But hen your happiness suffers, and repeatedly, you feel like you're not really living for yourself. Who wants to go through life unhappy, when you only get one time around, and the clock is ticking? The bad part of it is...situations like this often do result in cheating. It looks like you posted the same feelings of loneliness and neglect almost a year ago...and here you are again, feeling sad and lonely. I am positive an attractive girl like yourself would find some romantic, steamy, much-needed attention from a willing participant. It is just a shame it isn't from your partner...but a girl has needs/wants...and the clock is ticking.... 
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I'm not married...but in a relationship and feel exactly like you do....
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You need to be touched and seduced by someone you care about. Ted
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