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Happiness is about being okay  

Ianpoman 79M  
94 posts
12/14/2019 5:02 am
Happiness is about being okay

I'm so glad sex can be a great part of being happy. When I was growing up sexual pleasure was either taboo or reserved for marriage and babies. If you were queer or bi or trans or too obviously straight and " there", you were uh, er, um not okay. School, church, parents, doctors, authority figures just put a lid on sex. Oh you couldn't help notice the sticky sheets in the morning, or the thrill of jerking off, but as to "what's it all about?"--well what I learned from my brother and cousin was more stimulating than informative.

Fast forward 50 years (yeah, imagine that ), no more wet dreams but still feel that woohoo ecstasy. Sure love to watch young people enjoy each other, but I still enjoy the activity myself. AND I think there is more toleration and even encouragement of sexual activity--especially safe, sane, consensual. And it's more okay than ever to be bi, gay, trans, straight, queer, questioning, asexual even. That makes such a difference.

I've met some happy women and men on FriendFinder-x. They love being they are and are not age-ist or looks-ist. Stereotypes are breaking down. You really can be you are. Yes, you have to be careful. That's probably always and forever. But you can like you are. You can like others like you are. You can like they are. Sex, for me anyway, is not all or nothing, but a menu of possibilities: I love the restaurant but don't always select the item. I am selective, though, 'cause I can't stomach everything. Even if I'm not crazy about the meal of the day, I don't stop eating. And my "dishes" are always clean for maximum enjoyment. Being okay is a great beginning for happiness. !!!

srqsucker 60M

12/14/2019 5:12 am

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rogelimo4 56M
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12/14/2019 5:29 am

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savbob1 56M

12/14/2019 6:34 am

 im very happy


LetsGetIt450 41M
7 posts
12/14/2019 6:53 am

 happiness is eating an entire pizza by yourself


Ianpoman 79M  
83 posts
12/14/2019 7:03 am

 Thanks, friends. Wonderful of you to make a comment. All the best to each of you. Mmmm


HGMDale 72M  
82 posts
1/4/2020 7:15 am

 So agree that things are so much more open today than when I was growing up. Oh to be 40 years younger with the internet and all the joyous hot guys to perhaps meet for some morning coffee and see if there is a connection. Glad I found your blog finally sexy stud man.


onerust 69M
203 posts
7/30/2020 6:30 am

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Ianpoman 79M  
83 posts
12/26/2020 8:02 am

 Hey there. Let's at least have fun texting, messaging. Cheers!


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