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Mutual happiness  

Ianpoman 79M  
94 posts
4/24/2021 4:42 am
Mutual happiness

I took a short break because I felt overwhelmed. My spouse and I love each other, now in a nonsexual way due to differences in attitudes and health concerns. She's sexclusive and I am not. This has always been the case. How you wonder could this ever end in marriage? Well, it did and is great in so many ways. I'm FriendFinder-x she knows. it's not that she likes it but that she's knows it's an aspect of who I am. I think my life lesson is that we don't always get what we expect or want in just the way/s we expect or want. We can boohoo about it or cope and adapt.

So I am trying find mutual happiness with others whose situations may be similar. Sex is a touchy subject, eh? Literally. We are not robots programmed like machines. We are really complex organisms with a capacity for mutuality.

I love the curiosity and energy and beauty of<b> younger </font></b>AFFers--w, m and t. I also like the compassion and wisdom and spirit of older AFFers, too. Life is not a blueprint but a river, a stream of vitality. I want to go and cum with the flow in mutual confluence. How about you? Happiness is possible.

Smooth_Michelle 71T  
26 posts
8/14/2021 7:54 am

 Good morning...I think it is very nice for someone to have a spouse that accepts and understands someone's interest for sex and pleasure when there isn't pleasure or satisfaction at home. I truly have sympathy for married men who are not satisfied at home and are interested in finding someone to make them feel important. Frankly, I find it quite gratifying to be "The Other Woman!"


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