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How did I get singled out for this?  

UP4FUN2ORMORE1 75T
9 posts
5/22/2016 7:55 pm
How did I get singled out for this?


I'm an average older white male. Yes, I'm gay, yes I'm still married, yes I enjoy sex with men.
SO WHAT!!!
Some self appointed moral compass decided to "get off" by telling me what a useless individual I am. Really? Who do you think you are affecting in a positive way with this "blind siding" approach to browbeating.
I live my life trying to be kind to everyone, enjoy myself without hurting anyone, and trying not to degrade others thru actions I will regret later.
I think it is fair to say that I have enjoyed conversation with many on this website and I have had cybersex with a few. I have even met and done what comes naturally to gay men with several. To my knowledge I have not hurt anyone, I have not defamed anyone, I have been courteous to all, friendly to most, and I enjoy talking "dirty" on occasion. So, I'm going to hell? Really, and you know this because you have been there, and on your return trip your giving me a piece of advise? I don't think so.
I have had so many friendly, happy, and sexually gratifying experiences from<b> meeting men </font></b>of all persuasions, races, gender interests, and religions that I refuse to let one malcontent ruin my life.
OK, there has to be someone that can't stand anyone else having sex and enjoying it. That requires the question, "Are you an unhappy gay male?" If you are, I'm sorry you have so much guilt in your luggage that you want to "save"me from myself. If you want to do something important, save yourself. I'm not inclined to buy into your solution to my life. Now that you have said your piece, please leave me alone. I'm not interested. Thank you,
David
Unsolicited message sent to my profile on 5/22/2016 as follows:

"bhnjames
Jesus Christ died on the Cross for your sins. Repent and believe in the Gospel today!
One day you will stand before God and you will give account for everything you have done!

Sex outside of marriage is adultery, fornication is sex before marriage, oral sex, homosexuality, lesbianism, lust (all sexual sin) will send you to hell! even the thought of lust will send you to hell. Jesus said if you "look with lust its the same as committing adultery.

Hell is a place of torment, a place of isolation, darkness and eternal fire forever and ever.
God does not want you to go there. God made a way for you to be forgiven and have mercy through His Jesus Christ. He wants you to surrender your heart today and believe in your heart that Jesus is Lord.

The Bible says that ‘Today is the Day of Salvation’ that you are not guaranteed to live another day.
Jesus commands all men and women to “Repent and believe in the Gospel” Mark 1:15. God wants you in heaven not hell. Think about it. What will you do with Jesus Christ today?
He wants to save you.

Will you humble yourself and ask Jesus into your heart right now?
www.needgod.com"

honeydipt4u 65F  
122 posts
5/22/2016 8:07 pm

not that this will make you feel any better about getting the hate mail but you were NOT singled out for it. i just read another blogger who got the same thing you got today. someone spammed you.


UP4FUN2ORMORE1 replies on 5/24/2016 6:59 pm:
Thank you for the friendly note. How many members of the LGBT community did this nut case decide to offend? I have no quarrels with anyone about religion, that's a personal adventure for each of us.
Maybe I got a bit over animated by the intrusion but I guess it's here to stay and I shouldn't be so thin skinned about it. I have a very non judgemental outlook. As long as the mud slinging doesn't splatter on me I look the other way. Problem is a lot of other LGBT members have had similar episodes and none of it should be happening. I see the account has been deleted. They had the opportunity to financially support this site for one month. I hope management puts their money to good use.
David

helen_damnation 61F  
2487 posts
5/22/2016 8:36 pm

If they are so damn pure, what are they doing here? Missionary position....I mean work?

I am the only Me you get.


ladyaberlin 47F
49 posts
5/22/2016 8:59 pm

I'm sorry you got such a hateful message.

It takes a really miserable person to go out of his/her way to be so mean.


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