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Blogs > NotYetGrey > Philandering In Minnesota

Learning to be Dominant  

NotYetGrey 62M
52 posts
4/9/2016 7:33 am

Last Read:
6/20/2016 3:31 pm
Learning to be Dominant

My sexual education of how to be Dominant has awakened the sensual beast that has been dormant for to many years. From the time I was able to sneak my fathers penthouse magazines I always longed to be the one that was written about in the stories and testimonials. Yes, the pictures were the original goal but once I started to read the short stories and testimonials my mind was set on a course that until now I have not been able to follow.
Butt, with all the reading and watching on this thing called inter-porn, I found myself locked out and missing, this part of my life. I almost gave up the idea of being that sexual master, the controller of unbridled pleasure and desires, until I was introduced to a philanderers site by a co-worker. I will not judge others for their pursuits of finding themselves as we all travel roads that require us to make survival decisions. Philandering has opened up my mind and is fulfilling those needs that are a part of me that I cannot bury any longer.
So what have I, learned or better yet what have I been taught.....
Lesson 1:
Oh stop vs STOP when pursuing multiple orgasms.
The first time I found myself with a partner who was multi orgasmic was the first time my Dominant side really came out. Blessed with above average size in girth, length along with stamina, this was like finding the ultimate drug.
At first I was so pleased that the wonderful grinding and pumping was continuing that I lost myself in the moment. Watching her shudder and feeling her cum again and again with each orgasm stronger than the previous one she asked me to stop. Driven by this control over her pleasure I found that I could not and continued to derive yet another orgasm. This time the request was more urgent as she was convulsing without control.. I was lost and the pleasure I controlled, I was hooked.
It was the first of many lessons I would learn. And the one that sent me on my path to understanding be dominant.

emanesleeds 37M/32F
365 posts
4/11/2016 1:16 pm


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