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you asked so i am telling  

hotdominyolan 48F  
13 posts
2/19/2016 2:01 am
you asked so i am telling


Men:
Most of you that are married have a single profile and hit me up and then ask me about your wife. You ask me my opinion of why she may not be giving you sex. Hence why you are on this site to get sex. So here are my answers to these questions.

1. Take a look at yourself, what she fell in love with is also the physical attraction. So if you gained some weight its normal but hit the gym and get your work out on.
Get into some cross fit or something and slim down with some weights that will cut you up.. Every woman loves a man with some chest and abbs. You dont have to be a body builder but make that effort to be more healthy.

2. look at your every day routine. If its the same thing every day then change something up. Lunch with the wife, time for her just a little showing you think about her and not just texting her. Make a day for you and her to have time a weekly thing and she will look forward to it.

3. If you come home and there is no conversations because you watching football or something then you need to get off the TV or computer and talk. Be sexy just be in the house and show attention. You used to grab her ass and be hungry for her and now got comfortable with her and she feels it where she got comfortable of not having sex. Kiss her grab ass with her while in the kitchen especially when her hands are full with dishes she is stuck and cant run ahah. Her life of taking care of you and working may be the issue she is tired and feels it. Women will not chase men for sex its the man that shows her she makes him horny and intern will make her horny she feels wanted.

4. If you want to see her in sexy clothes then buy them. All men love to see women in boy shorts and cute outfits. Buy them for her and get her to wear them in the house, tell her how much you want to see her sexy.

5. Try to make it a point to shower together at the end of the night. Wash her sexy body and kiss her neck and tease a bit. Forplay starts with attraction and touch not having oral. Oral sex is one role of for play but its not where it starts.

6. Dont think you married a porn star, you married her because she is not a porn star and having sex with others and gone to do nasty shit you see on porn like anal or toys. If she likes that then so be it but dont try and force her into that because it will turn her off.

7. Vacations are one of the most important thing you can do. When both people are working plan your vacation time together and go somewhere where there are beautiful people young and old. Sunny beaches or mountain adventures. Seeing other sexy people and be like them feel free at heart and free each others minds of the every day grind. Its your time to be out of the stuffy normal life you life in the house and work.

8. When having sex you may be doing something that you think she likes but actually dont and wont tell you because it will hurt your feelings. Play and talk and ask. Example -- baby do you like the way i eat you, if not teach me how.. talk about her favorite position and things like that while having sex. Dont just do it and think its all good. She may like something done in a little different way.

9. Massages are a girls best friend especially after work. Foot, back, neck, and legs. she been in heals all day on her feet she needs your hands to rub them. If you dont know how to give a massage or need to learn more there is youtube. A lady named Athena Jezik she is a<b> older woman </font></b>that teaches how to give that perfect massage in all the right places. Relax her and show her your attempt to be that perfect husband.

10. If you come home stressed and show it she will be stressed and so will the . Its you that is the man so alfa and being angry will get you no where. If she has not given you sex in a long time then you have to go to the basics of what brought you together. Life can be complicated and time dont build a strong relationship, its the communication and showing love that does. Being angry or very controlling and jealous will end a relationship. No woman wants this and if your drinking or taking substance and get angry. Look at yourself and say I need to stop or slow down. When you met her you were not like that and wanted her so you didnt do those things so change yourself.

These are my opinions and my answers to your questions now if you think sleeping with someone else to satisfy yourself is the answer, I am not the one to judge or tell you what to do. But finding another woman to please you is not the answer to keeping a wife and most men are doing this on the sly. If you turn the table she may be doing the same to you. Be careful what you say or do because it might turn around on you. Yolan

AmorphousAmor 64M
3574 posts
2/19/2016 3:35 am

Thanks for your perspective


rm_MdicarloTTP 49M
1 post
2/19/2016 3:35 am

That was my relationship summed up in your blog.There are a few things that needed to be changed from my partner.1 i looked after her son like it was my own 2 i was always the person that understood battling with her x on when to pick him up and paid for the court case to get full custody.3 i thank her so much for giving me a wonderfull daughter,but it really turned pretty bad from there for both of us,things like my answeres were non existent to her anymore even for the slightest thing there had to be someone elses opinion even if i was right.Then came the affair and dirty txt messages on her phone then the night at the races we must of left out a few things.I always offered things for us to do to better our relationship it was never good enough.I bought some expensive langerie she never wore it well for me.Packing her things and walking out on me was eisier or telling me ohh were shifting so organise a truck to move our things.No talk about it last of all a little inosent girl was hurt cause she was always left out but as long as her son was looked after she was happy.and the list goes on and on and on.I do have my faults but mine were to stressfull for her.


hotdominyolan replies on 2/19/2016 4:02 am:
Mdicarlo, I can see what your saying and also from what it sounds like she had her agenda also. Its really sad to hear about your little girl and what happens to kids when the parents divorce there is always sides and never a reunion between people like it was for them. But good side of your situation is your free and can pick and choose and you learned from your previous relationship what happened to make things right for the new one. I had my time with a x that went bad and learned from it and found my new one. Relationships are never easy and breaking the rules of marriage is not a answer to fixing them as she did. Hope for the next best thing to come and get yourself in shape mentally and physically for a new woman. Its what life is about, you cant change the past you cant only alter your future to come.

xxxsasaxxxx 48M
719 posts
2/19/2016 3:38 am

>>!


sunligth56 57M
1113 posts
2/19/2016 5:15 am

xxxxxxxxxx


Acuriouscat48 60M

2/19/2016 7:09 am

thanks appreciate your veiw


CumTheWorld 60M
68 posts
8/17/2016 3:08 am

Sound advice sexy!


bwhaler 66M
89 posts
9/19/2017 9:39 am

pain in the ass


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