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you can't think i'm real?  

mstkinez 49F  
52 posts
10/22/2016 5:03 pm
you can't think i'm real?


we begin a chat
hellos happen
(i get excited, maybe i'm just silly to give the benefit of the doubt that i might get a conversation that i find cool enough to make a new friend... that's where i choose my pool of possibilities, just like if we met at Starbucks or Panera)
how are you may or may not happen but the response is either horny or hot or even swollen... (in my head, i'm like duh we're here for a reason)
the next thing i know i'm being invited to suck you off or have sex... like, ummm i'm fine...you?
lmao(i can do that now, but in the moment i may get slick with the comments because just because you may have looked at my photos a few times doesn't mean i'm all in on whatever your fantasy was before you spoke to me...honestly, i most likely didn't even check you out...so this feels mega abrasive)
if i was going to choose a man to be sexual with based solely on a penis or a thought of how enthused the participant would be based on how easily i can sit on their face, i would not even respond a lot of the time because i would have found him(those acts mean nothing and soon i'd be bored from looking and worn out from trying-not to mention the mental damage or possible disease)
so i am particular in my decisions on how i want to be approached, allowed to also desire the person who's writing me, touched-if you will...

no photos, because i don't want to know who you are until we know who we are(otherwise neither of us should care what the other person's face looks like until we are going to actually be face to face, my face will not make you know anything except how to recognize me on the street, lots of people do, but they don't know me like YOU may want to)

none of this makes me a waste of time, a prude or a man....i have been called all of these things when i am simply cautious and respect myself enough to know how i want my life to play out
if we don't fit, that's cool... if we do, we'll have tons of fun...lol ok rant over
can we at least be on the same page?

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