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Standards  

Jadzia11 55F
145 posts
2/23/2018 4:55 pm
Standards


I think my standards are too high for online dating any more.

I want someone who is age appropriate, not someone the same age as my father or my . Some who is relatively close to my age. A few more or less does not bother me. However more than 15-20 difference either way is too much for me.

I DO NOT want a married or attached man. I am not interested in playing the fool for some else's issues. I would prefer to get involved with some else who does not have attachments. I am not here to break up your marriage or relationship. And I certainly do not want to be there when your significant other finds out you have been stepping out.

I would prefer some that is within a reasonable distance from me. I have a job and responsibilities that make it so I cannot just hop in my car and drive most of the day, spend a couple hours hanging out and then driving back. That is not<b> realistic </font></b>for any in my opinion. I am not saying I cannot get away for some free time, but I want to be able to spend that time enjoying someones company and not traffic. I realize that I live in an area where some driving is to be expected as this is not a huge populated city. And I would never ask or expect a man to drive a great distance to meet me. I am very much of the mind set that the first meeting should be in public, it gives us both an out if needed or the option to go somewhere a little more private, if things go well.

And since I am a tall woman, I prefer men that are at least as tall as I am, if not taller. I know this is more of a vanity issue, but it's my preference. I have been out with men a few inches shorter, but if you are in the 5'0 to 5'7 range, I am most likely not going to be interested. I would prefer you can look at my face and not my chest while we are talking.

And conversation.... lets at least be able to communicate. I am not really interested in a man that can only talk about tits and ass ALL the time. I am all for those types of conversations when the time for it is there. But if you cannot stimulate my brain at least with basic conversation, you will very likely never stimulate my body.

So I guess I to sum it up, I would prefer a man that is single, mid 40's to 50's, tall and articulate. Seems like it is asking too much these days, so therefore I will probably remain single for a long time. But even just meeting some as a prospect is difficult with those outrageous standards I have.

kahonre2 53M
20 posts
3/19/2018 10:57 am

Well that's not really too much to ask for... you know what you're looking for.... altho may be hard to find on this site... there may be a few matches for you... not very many... lol.. you'll have to wees out the rest.....


CoffeewBaileys 66M  
81 posts
6/15/2018 7:47 am

miss you Jadz!
isn't it about time for a new blog post??

the sweetness of cream
the PERKiness of caffeine
the ambrosia-like elixir of....
Coffee~w/Baileys


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