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Your Hard Dick is NOT My Problem.  

bipolybabe69 62F
404 posts
2/11/2016 9:11 am
Your Hard Dick is NOT My Problem.


The last time I was on FriendFinder-x, I quit when I got tired of being seen as a vessel for male ejaculation.

Gross but accurate.

If they've been foolish enough to give out their cell phone number, I'm sure other women have gotten plenty of these pleading hands by text.

🙏

The funny thing is, I told a young guy the other night about how I gave up<b> casual sex </font></b>on FriendFinder-x the last time because I discovered that men promise to give a massage and then really expect to get fucked after touching me for 5 minutes. And then he proceeded to text me the offer of a massage with no expectations. Except that he mentioned he had a super hard dick from talking to me as we walked around downtown.

Call me cynical but I've been around that block. Literally and figuratively.

It's a kind of subtle (or not so subtle) manipulation, I think, and women have been socialized to be nice and try to meet men's needs, sexual and otherwise, in order to be liked, appreciated, desired.

The thing is...usually the guy pleading is from out of town, has one last day in my town, has not given a smidgen of a clue that he's actually read my profile...and he's asking if I'll help him with his hard-on.

NOT MY PROBLEM, DUDE.

READ MY PROFILE. Pretend to be interested in me as a person. STOP THINKING SOLELY ABOUT YOUR DICK.

Sign me off as,

Grumpy

(Hey, maybe I just need to get laid! ;-0 )

Souljaboi35 45M
18 posts
2/11/2016 9:30 am

thats rite


KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
2/11/2016 10:06 am

I like the line you used "Pretned to be interested in me as a person..."
Do they not get that that alone goes a long fucking way?
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KAKI1 64M  
9 posts
2/14/2016 3:47 pm

I think you have to be interested in a person to be intimate. If they will touch you with affection, you should reciprocate or find something else to do.

Anything worth doing is worth doing well


rob5ice2 66M
199 posts
5/21/2016 5:18 pm

Tried the respond to a person. Butt my setup isn't allowing this. - But reference "ghost90025" comment about "lot of men that need to stop thinking about themselves first".

Well the same applies to everyone if we actually think about it. Because that is pretty much what people are doing here first. Sure there may be a few. But face it. The truth is. The majority of people are here thinking only about themselves.

Else we even have the issue being addressed. The issue being discussed is based on the viewpoint of 'themselves' and their 'self interest'.

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But in any case. Some times people or 'we', only see people as a tool to be used. People are more than that. People are more than 144 characters, and more than list of demands to be meet.


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