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Blogs > bipolybabe69 > "..yes I said yes I will Yes."

What's behind the MILF Fantasy?  

bipolybabe69 62F
404 posts
3/7/2016 11:30 am
What's behind the MILF Fantasy?

I really don't get it. Why do I get emails from guys in their 20s old telling me they want to meet me RIGHT NOW?!? (My profile says I seek those 40+.)

Spoiler Alert: I have a gorgeous, smart who will be 21 in April. It squicks the crap out of me to consider fucking someone his age.

I've got nothing against age play. Kink, specifically making power play explicit, is one of the things I love. I harbored a Daddy/Little Girl fantasy for a LONG time before I found a man I trusted enough to play it out. He was two years younger than I. Because it's about power, not about fucking a stand-in for my 76-year-old dad. Ewww!

As "Mommy," a whole lot of filth spewed from my mouth in play with a guy who is 10 years older than I. In my opinion, that's healthy, playing out fantasy with someone who is a peer.

I understand testosterone coursing through their blood stream, creating an erection just from a breeze and a desire to jerk off many times a day, but why the<b> older woman </font></b>thing?

Do they think I'm easier or hornier than girls in their 20s? For that, they need to hit on women in their 40s. When I was perimenopausal (Look it up, Boys!), my hormones were popping off such that I was horny as a teenage boy. Now, sadly, I don't feel that "She Gotta Have It" feeling without an exciting human being across the table from me. (None of them will likely know the reference to the 1986 Spike Lee movie by that name...because it came out 10 years before they were born! Another reason I don't date younger men. They don't get my cultural references.)

Here's what I want to write to guys under 30, "Why the fuck are you interested in me? I am easily the age of your mother. Go find an open-minded girlfriend your own age who will pretend to be 'Mommy' and take care of your needs, Baby."

What I'm thinking is, "Have you actually seen the sagging tits, belly stretch marks and vulva of a 50+-year-old woman? Most of us are not Demi Moore. We don't have the time, money or interest in working to look 24."

And then I add just to myself, "I'm just not attracted to younger men. For me, attraction begins with my mind. Young guys have no idea how to engage my fantasies. They think youth is all*, but, really, they want me to do all the heavy lifting** for their fantasy. Because who I am as a person is not important."

**THAT REQUIRES ROLE PLAY FOR WHICH I GET PAID A LOT OF money.

* Okay, because I always speak straight, I will say that beautiful (BIG) dick pix give them an advantage. Also, well-built men with nicely muscled bodies...like my gorgeous . Oops! TMI? However, my assumption is that most young guys come too quickly for my satisfaction. So even that advantage isn't a big one.

Finally, because many of them dictate their responses to me on some app and don't know the difference between "you're" and "your" and "too" and "to," they don't bother to correct grammatical errors. I judge that as lacking education or not caring how they present themselves.

So, now I'd like to hear another perspective. What am I missing? What do I not understand about 20-year-old male sexuality? And what's behind The Older Woman Fantasy?

I'm going to post this blog so I have an automatic response for young men. They are welcome to show how I'm mistaken in my assumptions.

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BiPolyBabe69 aka Angie

angel222006 64F
149 posts
3/7/2016 11:45 am

 I so agree with u I got a lot of young young boys asking to hookup like u said just because I am older does not mean I will jump in bed with any guy who says oh u r so pretty love your smile flattery will get you no where. Yes I am no size 2 but I know what Im looking for in a MAN not boy


bipolybabe69 replies on 3/31/2016 6:59 am:
I'm afraid my willpower is not as strong as yours. I'm inclined to fall for flattery

love2pleasu13 56M
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6472 posts
3/7/2016 12:01 pm

 oh well what the hell


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
3/7/2016 12:02 pm

 I, too, find it very irritating when a younger man emails me " I just LOVE older women" they don't have a clue and it's a waste of my time to educate them.
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bipolybabe69 replies on 3/31/2016 7:02 am:
I have a confession. I'm about to meet a boy just FIVE YEARS OLDER than my son. I probably won't chicken out since who's been hanging around my "inbox"for a while as I toy with him like a cat with a mouse.

Of course, he has enormous attributes that make him look like a Hot Fudge Sunday when my pussy is hungry.

Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
3/7/2016 12:05 pm

 Maybe, they are reading that older women want it more. Hell, I don't know. LOL

Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.


bipolybabe69 replies on 3/7/2016 2:18 pm:
One of my young suitors wrote to me just now: "I told you I just have a thing for older women. It's not cause I think you're easier. Is it weird to think that a younger guy could be interested in older women?"

and "I have been with a couple and I prefer them sexually to younger women. The sex is way better."

And that's when I got it. I'm a center fold for his "Older Woman" fantasy (a reference he's also unlikely to get since he may never have seen "Playboy" centerfolds). He doesn't want to get to know me as a person. He merely assumes by virtue of my age that I'll be better at sex than someone his age. Which is likely true. I teach about sex, after all.

The problem is, youth on its own doesn't appeal to me, and he's less likely to be skilled than someone closer to my own age. Which is why I'd be kinder if I didn't play cat with a mouse and simply replied, "No thanks."

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