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Blogs > bipolybabe69 > "..yes I said yes I will Yes."

Ouch! What chaps your ass the most?!?  

bipolybabe69 62F
404 posts
4/19/2016 1:00 am
Ouch! What chaps your ass the most?!?
Ouch!

Cyber stalking (friends checked it out for me) has revealed that The Unavailable Guy (TUG), the one I suffered loving for the past year while he was merely "fond" of me, has already traded me in for The New Model...a woman 11 years younger than I.

And 20 years younger than he! (Quick math: I'm 54. He just turned 62 though he claims 55. In my opinion, he actually looks like 45-50 years old.)

Curse his great genes! Even my friends --who hate him on principle because they love me-- agree he's quite well-preserved.

But here's the kicker...

The Unavailable Guys' new model has a great rack. I haven't seen the tits in real life but he's posted them on their new swinger profile. And they look real rather than fake!

So...what would make you feel worst about your replacement:

* Younger?
* Bigger dick/rack?
* Smarter?
* More successful?
* Something else?

So I'll be putting a small Elmo Bandaid on my ouch and going off with my unicorn gal pals to Plush Parties "Spring Fling" in Phoenix April 29-May 1.



BiPolyBabe69 aka Angie

sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
4/19/2016 1:15 am

 Who knows, maybe she'll end up taking him to the cleaners.

he can play coat hanger then !!


KFC36853 72M
250 posts
4/19/2016 1:52 am

 Is that a real chapped ass or what?

Bless your heart.


bipolybabe69 replies on 4/19/2016 8:45 am:
That's an Elmo Band-Aid on my chapped tits. Funny thing at last year's Vegas hotel event for swingers:

Panties and pasties required!

69bud69 70M
7134 posts
4/19/2016 5:07 am

 That really sucks. Not the greatest words of empathy, but, they are honest.

Every one on your list would lower my self esteem a bit. Being more successful probably the least of the bunch.

This will take time, but you are better off now, and will be happier in the long run.

Bud
Always Ready for Fun.


bipolybabe69 replies on 4/19/2016 8:44 am:
I already know I'm better off letting go of my desire. My self esteem spiraled down in the past year of loving and not being loved in return.

I've realized that I actually wanted him to be a different person, one who would appreciate how uniquely wonderful I am. But he is not that person and no amount of wishing will make it so.

Thank you for your heart-felt empathy, Bud!

wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
4/20/2016 10:49 am

 so much younger....soooooooooooooooo much
You cannot conceive the many without the one.


bipolybabe69 replies on 4/20/2016 1:43 pm:
The youth thing offers a very small ouch for me. I write it off to his wanting to date someone the age of his soon-to-be-ex wife due to his insecurity about getting dumped. And being rather superficial to boot.

I recognize that my skin, breasts and ass have shifted for the worse since I was 43, but I'm sexy for my age so the age/physical appearance thing isn't so painful.

What does hurt is that I was replaced so quickly and easily. It irks me that I helped him find The New Model as his "Partner in Crime" for swinging activities.

I did discover, however, in the past year that I'm just not a swinger. I'm not interested in quantities of new sex partners or variety simply for the sake of variety. I like to care about the people with whom I have sex. I like specific kinds of experiences.

My search --finding a partner who wants an intimate relationship without monogamy-- certainly seems to be more challenging. But I'm genuinely enjoying being "solo poly." I also discovered in this past year that I can quite enjoy 3somes when the woman is truly bi.

Irishdrummer805 35M
2 posts
4/21/2016 11:45 pm

 I'd say more successful would hurt more. I mean, I do pretty well, but it would be pretty insulting for sure


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