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Hitting the Sexual Doldrums  

bipolybabe69 62F
404 posts
10/29/2016 3:58 pm
Hitting the Sexual Doldrums


Definition doldrums: a state or period of inactivity, stagnation, or depression.

My sex life certainly suffers from stagnation. That's why I haven't checked in lately with you, my fellow pervs.

Still having sex, yes, of course. But it's not particularly novel or worth writing home about...except a couple weekends ago when I picked a guy up at Franklin Hot Springs in Paso Robles. Or maybe he picked me up because I felt so deliciously weightless and free while floating in the hot springs.

While he was chatting with me and my gal pals, I found myself floating toward Tim as he sat on a cement step. He didn't stop me and he didn't grab me. As I moved closer, he gently stroked my legs under the water, letting one hand rest at the top of my thigh. The other hand let a finger rest in the<b> cleavage </font></b>of my bikini-clad ass.

In broad daylight in a "family friendly" spa, which is why I was wearing a (very skimpy) bathing suit.

I will tell anyone who asks about the most provocative move for women:

It's when you get close to delicate areas and DO NOT PRESS ON.

Awakening female desire requires a dance. It's not like how you turn yourself on, guys, stroking whichever part of your dick responds best to intense attention.

For me, and for most women, it's about suggestion and creating our desire to move toward you.

Move toward him I did. Tim was surprised when I announced out loud to my gal pals that I intended to take him back to our hotel room and fuck him while they continued soaking. My gal pals weren't surprised because we are Sisters of the Healthy Sexual Appetite.

The sex was surprisingly tender, sensual and, well, fun...especially considering that Tim had already drunk a six pack of 25 oz beers. That's a whole lotta beer! Next time I'll investigate whether he can fuck as well without as much of a beer load on.

Though my sex life lately has not included much novelty, I am gearing up for the next phase of my business as a Sex Coach. I spent last week in Vegas just recently at a conference for entrepreneurs and enrolled in some intriguing training programs:

* "You Everywhere Now" about how to write your how-to book and get it out into the world RIGHT NOW

* Sassy Mastermind--a year-long program for leveraging my 1:1 coaching business into an online model. Search Lisa Sasevich if interested.

* Infusionsoft--a software package to make it easier for me to communicate with prospective .

* Global Experts Accelerator--Software for online assessments to draw in prospective .

I believe that creative energy is sexual energy. Our sex drives fuel the rest of our lives. Currently, I'm harnessing my sex drive to fuel entrepreneurial business growth.

Because I've realized that I'm responsible for taking care of myself. And that I can do it for myself!

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BiPolyBabe69

wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
10/31/2016 8:30 am

the world is an odd place. shifting the ground just when you think it's solid.

dry spells always mean something's coming.........

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


69bud69 69M
7134 posts
11/1/2016 1:46 pm

You have a highly creative sexual attitude. Who can't find that attractive in any person. Especially an attractive sexy woman like yourself.
I hope you find inspiration for your sex coaching.
Keep up the good work. Creativity in sex helps keeps life exciting and interesting. We're only here once, so make the most of every moment.

Bud

Always Ready for Fun.


membrbbc2000 67M

6/22/2019 12:04 pm

I'm curious to know what it is you're not receiving when you reach the doldrums of sensual interaction. Patterns that become, as Eddie Murphy once stated, regular old crackers rather than Ritz, physical without spiritual or emotional attachment? I wish I counted the number of times I, in my male ego, thought I was pursuing only to discover I was the prey! Indeed, the gift of awakening female desire, for a male, is that she is going to grow, mature with the trust gained by the guidance of a loving, giving individual or community. I don't want to get too philosophical here but do want to engage your attention....would enjoy a stroll on one of our beautiful beaches with you!


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