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How do I get myself into a date like this?
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How do I get myself into a date like this? If you looked at my status last night (I’m flattered by how many of you actually did look at it) you will have noticed that I had another mishap. I’m trying to figure out how this can happen. But first I want to ask a question: Should I “out” these guys when they do this? What is your opinion? Should they be allowed to continue doing this to other women? I could have been out with someone else, one of the really great guys I’ve met here. Geez and I was so horny last night too! I’m going to reproduce exactly (except for names and ) every communication I had with this guy and then you tell me where I went wrong and what I should do differently. For the women who read my blog, I’d really like your opinions too and if you message me I will privately help you avoid this guy if you want to know who he is. Here are the messages exactly as they occurred, you can see that more than 6 weeks went by between the first message and the last. (screen name withheld) Hi. I am very interested. If you reply, all that I ask is no games. Thanks... 2/21/2016 10:38 am Me - Hi Bald, I don't usually give two chances on contacts like this but I'm feeling generous tonight. I've found through many meetings that no games to a guy means, "I want to come over get my rocks off and leave." So what I'd suggest is that if you're still interested that you read both my profile (must have escaped you the first time) and my blog (for some good advice for contacting any woman really) and then give it another try. 2/21/2016 6:11 pm Me I'm sorry, I just re-read this and realize I wrote "bald", I meant to write "ball". Need to proofread before I hit send. 2/22/2016 5:44 am (screen name withheld) Sensitivity is not an issue with me. I understand introductions are tough. So, forgive me if you felt disrespected. I am a blunt, sweet , and forward type of person. I have nothing to hide. First, my favorite foods range from classy places to late night mom and pop restaurants. My favorite place to eat is greens and proteins. I love the variety of healthy choices. Next, my favorite lounge is the wine cellar at the M resort. I really love relaxing jazz or live music. I love positive vibes. The reason I contacted you was because I enjoyed reading your profile. I’m definitely looking for a buddy I can get to know. And then see what happens... 2/22/2016 8:15 am (screen name withheld) Are you interested in meeting? 2/25/2016 5:06 pm Me - Sure, however, I'm in Austin through next Tuesday. I'll be in town for a couple of weeks (through March 11). Let me know what you'd like to do and when. S 2/26/2016 6:29 am (screen name withheld) - Sounds good. Do you drink wine? I want to go wine tasting. 2/29/2016 9:29 pm Me - Yes, I drink wine. Where would you like to go wine tasting? S 3/4/2016 5:12 am Me - BTW.... what's your name? 3/4/2016 5:19 am (screen name withheld) - The M. I'm (name withheld) btw 3/7/2016 4:38 am Me - Nice to meet you (name withheld). What day(s) and time(s) work for you? 3/7/2016 6:26 pm (screen name withheld) - This week. I'm free after 7 at tonight and tomorrow. Thursday Friday before 2 pm. Weekends are wide open 3/8/2016 8:07 am Me - Good morning (name withheld). Perhaps we could meet at the Hostile Grape sometime this weekend. I was going to Reno, but the weather was nicer in Vegas. S 3/10/2016 6:07 am (screen name withheld) - Ok sounds good. Can you send me a pic of your face? Please 3/10/2016 1:25 pm Me - Good morning (name withheld), here's a couple of face and body pics. 3/11/2016 2:37 pm (screen name withheld) - ... thank you. Are you free today? 3/12/2016 6:17 am Me - Unfortunately, my day has filled up. I'm heading out for a<b> hike </font></b>this morning and going to the Brooklyn Bowl tonight to see Gary Clark, Jr. I'm having brunch tomorrow morning and my parents are coming in from Oklahoma tomorrow afternoon. 3/12/2016 6:53 am (screen name withheld) - 4Ok. No worries. . Hope you have a great day. 3/12/2016 7:37 am (screen name withheld) - Hello... 3/21/2016 10:26 pm Me - Good morning (name withheld), I was down with the stomach flu for a week and my parents have been in town. My calendar will be clearing up after Thursday if you'd like to get together. S 3/29/2016 7:00 am (screen name withheld) - Hello S. Hope you're feeling better. Yea let's get together Friday. 3/29/2016 9:04 pm Me - Good morning (name withheld), would you like to meet at the Hostile Grape on Friday afternoon. If so, text me at (Number withheld) S 3/31/2016 7:45 am Leading up to the actual date we began texting; here are the texts: 3/31/2016 2:01PM - Him: Hi S it’s (name withheld) 3/31/2016 2:50PM - Me: Good afternoon (name withheld) How’s your day going? 3/31/2016 3:21PM - Him: Pretty good, How about yours? 3/31/2016 4:04PM - Me: I’m working at a office today. Heading to the gym at 5:30. So would you like to meet tomorrow afternoon? 3/31/2016 9:10PM - Him: Sounds good. 3/31/2016 9:11PM - Me: When and where? 3/31/2016 9:16PM - Him: I’ll be free by 12. Hostile grape works. 3/31/2016 9:22PM - Me: I won’t be available until 4. Will that work for you? 3/31/2016 9:41PM - Him: Ok 4/1/2016 7:08AM - Me: Good morning (name withheld). So what part of town do you live in? I have a 2:30 meeting and should be done by 3:30, but it might run later. I don’t want you to drive over too early if I’m running late. 4/1/2016 8:14AM - Him: Henderson, and good good morning 4/1/2016 1:57PM - Me: (name withheld) are you good with meeting at the hostile Grape at 4:30? 4/1/2016 3:25PM - Him: I’m still working. Might be close to 5, Is that OK? 4/1/2016 3:26PM - Me: Yes. 5 would be better. See you there. 4/1/2016 4:53PM - Me: On my way. 4/1/2016 4:59PM - Him: Me too. Fighting traffic. 4/1/2016 5:06PM - Me: I’m here. 4/1/2016 5:16PM Him - I’m stuck on the 215e. Can you come closer to green valley area? Possibly and please. 4/1/2016 5:18PM: Me: I had someone drop me off. Let me see if I can grab an Uber. 4/1/2016 5:21PM - Him: Ok. Do you need a ride home? 4/1/2016 5:33PM - Me: There’s a new Italian place I’d like to try at the District. Why don’t we meet there? I’m grabbing an Uber, should be there by 6. Does that work? The place is called Bella Vita. 4/1/2016 5:59PM - Me: So I’m here, where are you? 4/1/2016 6:02PM - Him: I just want to have sex tonight, is that possible? 4/1/2016 6:03PM - Me: Wow, really. I haven’t even met you and you’ve been giving me the run around all afternoon. There might have been a chance, but now. No. And thank you for the blog material. 4/1/2016 6:23 p.m. Him: I’m not giving you the run around, it’s a simple question This guy says right off the bat, “I don’t want any games”, but I ask you, “Who was playing the game?” Was this my fault? Is my profile unclear? How can I avoid this type of loser? Thanks everyone for your advice! Here's a photo I haven't posted before.  |
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One more time of men acting like an animal in heat & wanting to use someone for a cum dumpster!
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4/2/2016 9:52 am |
Loser that's for sure.... but more importantly I would wonder if he's a stalker too!
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if your going to meet at a prearranged drink establishment show up what an fn turd you were right to say no. but I would have told said person off pretty good. that's me I cant answer for others.
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As far as I can see, you were straight with this ass, and he was a total ass. Don't give up all us men are not the same. I believe nothing until it has become history!
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ohhhh he's a serious player ~smh~ Sorry you had to endure that!!!!
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From what I've heard from others on this site is that this occurs quite frequently. Maybe you should start up a Known Flakes group in the Vegas groups. Unfortunately it would probably end up being the most active group in Vegas. Sorry you got flaked on
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Very sorry to hear of your experience - for many reasons...
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From someone who knows this fine sexy inspiring woman that guy doesn't know the things he missed out on her sexuality is truly enhanced only after you get to know her. Her body might be the vessel but her mind and personality is the fuel to take you to another world. I am glad I have gotten to know her.
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Dear Lady S. It is is world wide web. It is not costly and maners that made life simple Dont need to get maintained. I am sure i flirted with guys that hang out in moms basement. Went to dates with no show, met a women that had a mental disfunction and her husband pushed her into it, Met women that looked differnt than any image posted. Different in Age, size and apperance. By reading your blog, nothing wrong on your side. Well he is not a Gentelman. A gentleman waits for the lady and not has her wait. For the first date. On time is late. Earlier is on time. I always try to have a phone call. To make sure there is person. Ask a question that requiers beeing real and that the person is from the area. And yes, i know of some groups have lists. Why not. If he screws you. Help out the few honest people. We are here for the entertainment of sex in various ways and needs and not to screw with other peoples interests. See you soon . B
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1 post 4/11/2016 7:46 am |
From what I've read he had absolutely no intention of meeting. You gave him too many chances. The outcome is now going to be any genuine men that would like to meet your for dinner or whatnot will be more scrutinised because of this dickhead.
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Correct me if I'm wrong, never actually had a phone conversation right? This is all over IM and text... technology is taking over the world, the new meaning of been social.
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What a waste of time. He lied from the start. I don't think you could have avoided this as he *seemed honest with good intentions. It seems something may have shifted when your mom came to visit and you got sick? Either way - start over. We're not all liars.
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7/20/2016 5:21 pm |
Guys like that just make things so much harder for those of us who are genuine & would never disrespect such an awesome opportunity to be with such an amazing woman! I so love this & all your incredibly sexy photo's! I love the effort you have put into them & you imagination in creating such a fine array of different but classic photo's. Having such a magnificent body also probably helps!
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