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waste of money so far.....  

spartian123456 44M
13 posts
2/9/2016 5:05 pm
waste of money so far.....
Wow FriendFinder-x has been a waste of money so far for me! if you read this and see where I am going wrong please let me know...... so far been on here a month and just vary disappointed cam models and just bs all I have seen sad and seems like a scam to me?
dwz5234 71M
2394 posts
2/9/2016 5:17 pm

 damn i totally agree with you ,been on an off here 4 yrs and the same b/s


bay_fun 63M
75 posts
2/9/2016 5:18 pm

 I blame the members, a bunch of time wasters.
1 out of every 100 are genuinely looking and happy to meet, the rest are just looking thinking they are going to meet some marvelous person that they have built in their own mind but that person doesn't exist in the real world and if they do they are not going to meet them on this site.


nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
2/9/2016 5:37 pm
    Quoting bay_fun:
    I blame the members, a bunch of time wasters.
    1 out of every 100 are genuinely looking and happy to meet, the rest are just looking thinking they are going to meet some marvelous person that they have built in their own mind but that person doesn't exist in the real world and if they do they are not going to meet them on this site.
Wrong, I met him in here, and we still very happily dating. He is the best in every aspect. I could not had ask for more. See, all you need is to be patient and treat others the way you want to be treat, the level of respect is also important, even in here in this site. that is where most guys fail big time, cause they think or have the mentality that cause they paid membership and is a sex site, then everyone is for the grabs. when that is not the case. The good people are out there, yes, even in this site, I know that for a fact. the thing is that you gotta be good to run in to them. you get what you attract base on your behavior.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/9/2016 5:54 pm

 There are a lot of women time wasting you on here, but a lot depends on your immediate area.

I suggest you make use of more sites than just this one site.


spankandsquirt20 45F
10597 posts
2/9/2016 6:13 pm

 I had a peek at your profile. One thing I might suggest is to use a spell checker, it just gives a better impression if things are spelled correctly. Men do outnumber women on this site, so you really have to work to get noticed.
If you send messages, make sure you are nice and polite, don't send a one liner asking to hook up. Read her profile first. If she says no, walk away and don't get mean.
Another good way of getting to know people here are through the blogs. Read some blogs, leave some comments and let the other bloggers get to know you.
Good luck.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/9/2016 6:13 pm
    Quoting saw_guy:
    Oh well, another DIS-satisfied customer. It really seems funny that there is so much gripe about standard members, then paying members gripe about how worthless this site is.
well said
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/9/2016 6:16 pm
    Quoting spankandsquirt20:
    I had a peek at your profile. One thing I might suggest is to use a spell checker, it just gives a better impression if things are spelled correctly. Men do outnumber women on this site, so you really have to work to get noticed.
    If you send messages, make sure you are nice and polite, don't send a one liner asking to hook up. Read her profile first. If she says no, walk away and don't get mean.
    Another good way of getting to know people here are through the blogs. Read some blogs, leave some comments and let the other bloggers get to know you.
    Good luck.
That seems to often be the case when people go the "it's a scam" route.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


jensplace56 61F
38 posts
2/9/2016 6:40 pm

 I tend to disagree based on my own experience on here. I have been lucky to meet several very nice men in the time I have been here. They each turned into long term fwbs. I think you do have to take the time to get to know each other before jumping into bed, although I have done that once or twice myself...lol But some good conversation before and at a first meet goes a long way. I can pretty much tell if I even want a first meet after talking some first, either by text, cam, or phone....I always talk on phone before meeting. The voice and how we connect determines if we meet or not. Good luck.... patience is the key.


kauldronT0017 43M
178 posts
2/9/2016 10:06 pm

 It is just growing pains. Things will get better. There are more guys looking than there are woman. A lot of the woman are looking for something that fits within their lifestyle or schedule. Some are just looking for a little something extra to something they already have going. Just remember that it isn't always something you did wrong or even right for that matter. It's hard to break the ice on any dating site. Especially one like this that has an emphasis on sex. It is only logical that people will naturally be more interested in the most attractive option available to them in this setting. Be patient and take your time getting to know people. I have met some fun and amazing woman on here. It isn't a scam. They weren't quite what I was looking for long term, but I made that clear going in and we had a great time. Just be yourself and casually check out the blogs in your area and message the people that interest you. Rejection sucks but it is part of the process. Don't be offended if a woman doesn't respond. Her lack of response is out of experience because some guys look at any response as an opportunity even if it was a no. I'm on vanilla sites too it is no different there. Just be yourself and you will find it. My last date was from someone that recognized me in public from my blog on here last week. Just be patient.


spartian123456 44M
2 posts
2/10/2016 5:17 pm

 Thanks for the insight and tips from all the real people who responded. I appreciate it.


spartian123456 44M
2 posts
2/29/2016 5:37 pm

 Sorry to say but I get more communication and interest at Walmart then this site... so I am out of here good luck to the people who stay and keep paying for this site my condolences to you. 45 days and not one real person = fail


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