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Maize32 55M
322 posts
10/20/2017 12:04 pm
Message received


I received the following message today:

Her: stop viewing me ugly man

Me: Hmmm, I don’t believe I have viewed your profile. Sometimes the system shows that a person has viewed your profile when that is not the case. Have a great day.

Her: yeah ur are i wouldn’t lie about that

Then they block me...

Oh well, no worries either way for me. I typically don’t reply to those messages, but every once in awhile it’s fun to...

Maize32 55M
1391 posts
10/20/2017 12:05 pm

Shaking my head.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
10/20/2017 12:46 pm

Too many dick heads on this site.


rachel0718 58F
20470 posts
10/20/2017 1:00 pm

Its amazing how people act on this site... doh!


Rachel Mae


Maize32 55M
1391 posts
10/20/2017 2:08 pm

    Quoting marysia4u:
    Too many dick heads on this site.


Unfortunately, that is a true statement...and one that is gender neutral.


Maize32 55M
1391 posts
10/20/2017 2:09 pm

    Quoting rachel0718:
    Its amazing how people act on this site... doh!
Totally agree - perhaps they feel better about themselves after sending the message.


Maize32 55M
1391 posts
10/20/2017 2:12 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes they sure did...I agree on your last statement too. 😎


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
10/20/2017 5:06 pm

Just because it hasn't happened to them they don't believe it does. I get views from people that didn't actually view me. The site says they do if they ( all men ) enter the chat room after me. They must be so new they haven't had any problems YET. Not everybody has the same problem and not at the same time.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Maize32 55M
1391 posts
10/20/2017 6:20 pm

    Quoting Brownie202:
    Just because it hasn't happened to them they don't believe it does. I get views from people that didn't actually view me. The site says they do if they ( all men ) enter the chat room after me. They must be so new they haven't had any problems YET. Not everybody has the same problem and not at the same time.
Very true and it's possible they are new. However, that doesn't excuse them for the rude message and unnecessary name calling.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
10/20/2017 8:04 pm

Really someone would write you this?

Well I have had a few guys write me because they thought I viewed them and I didn’t. Your right the system does this and too bad it had to happen to you. Hugs V

Remember it is her lost

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


Maize32 55M
1391 posts
10/20/2017 8:21 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Really someone would write you this?

    Well I have had a few guys write me because they thought I viewed them and I didn’t. Your right the system does this and too bad it had to happen to you. Hugs V

    Remember it is her lost
Hi V - it amazes me that anyone sends a message like this to anyone, besides being rude - it's totally unnecessary. If they think someone is constantly viewing them, then simply block them. As you said, it's their loss! 😀


Maize32 55M
1391 posts
10/21/2017 3:22 pm

    Quoting  :

I know, right...it’s somewhat comical - mostly sad though...


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
10/22/2017 10:28 am

Some pple can be idiots.. sorry to say that but it's true. I have experienced worse.


Maize32 55M
1391 posts
10/22/2017 11:18 am

    Quoting lyavu:
    Some pple can be idiots.. sorry to say that but it's true. I have experienced worse.
Agreed - I'm sure you have. From what I've read, women receive this type of response more often than men, especially if they say "not interested."


A_ying_yang_twin 71M
25 posts
10/22/2017 6:03 pm

I don't even respond to such messages. I've been online and gotten I.M.'s such as: STOP MESSAGING ME! and WHY DID YOU LIE ON YOUR PROFILE! I just ignored them, but it did make me wonder if there was some type incentive from FriendFinder-x for females attaining a certain number of responses.
Message received


Maize32 55M
1391 posts
10/24/2017 9:11 am

    Quoting A_ying_yang_twin:
    I don't even respond to such messages. I've been online and gotten I.M.'s such as: STOP MESSAGING ME! and WHY DID YOU LIE ON YOUR PROFILE! I just ignored them, but it did make me wonder if there was some type incentive from FriendFinder-x for females attaining a certain number of responses.
    Message received
I typically do not respond either, but every once in awhile I do...there is definitely some algorithm they have in place to increase visits/flirts/hotlists.


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