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Experiences from a (mostly straight) female POV
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Experiences from a (mostly straight) female POV So, I think a lot of times that guys will think women have it a lot easier when it comes to dating. Yes, we have more choices and options, but no, it can be one really kooky thing after another...not to mention the stuff we get in our inboxes. So, this weekend I was looking to get out more, because some things I had planned fell through. After sending out many messages, this is how it went. 1) Maybe 3 replied. Most didn't. 2) One guy said he wanted to meet up for drinks, and then cancelled 30 minutes later, after I'd gotten ready. 3) One guy I'd been talking to for a long time got sick. 4) One guy I'd been talking to for a long time was working late. 5) One guy I'd had a great time with before had feelings that were interfering with his ability to date at the moment. 6) One guy I hadn't messaged messaged me about getting me pregnant (pregnancy was a total nightmare for me, so this was rather horrifying). 7) One guy I hadn't messaged messaged me about being his , offering gifts and "donations" to get together once per week.  One guy was out of town on work.9) One guy hit me up in chat over and over as I proceeded to ignore him, including a message about "How can I get you to reply to me." I called him out for his douchebaggery, to which his eventual response was, "What's wrong? Are you having a bad hair day?" Seriously. He harassed me, I explained to him how it's unacceptable and stalkerish, and he had the gall to ask me if I was having a bad hair day. So, I know you guys think women on here just have it easy. Hopefully, this gives you a window into all the things that can go wrong even when it appears that you have a lot of options. I still have one guy that said he could do coffee with me...but he never accepted my suggestion for a place to meet, so it makes me wonder if he plans on doing so...   MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=} |
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darn wish i was in L.A you wouldn't have those problems
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That's par for the course in these parts LOL
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So there was about 9 examples there. So what you telling us is you know atleast 9 assholes who don't know a good thing when they see it !
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Exactly what I experienced!MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life . Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}
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You definitely aren't the only one!MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life . Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}
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Two observations in support of your point: 1) As coordinator of my wifes social calendar, I find the nicer the looking, harder the body, the bigger the dick. Literally and figuratively. 2) while our FriendFinder-x efforts seem to favor my wife I do reach out from time to time to ladies of interest for myself. The nicer the looking woman, the more often they reply. The ones that seem loose with their bodies (ie. slut material) never reply. Conclusion, whether right or wrong... Men are often intimidated by beauty and brains. Men often have no brains. And the "loose women" are either being flooded by men (again literally and figuratively), or they are actually men posing as loose women. Just my .02 cents. ~Mr. Couple
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Before we were together, my partner and I both occasionally looked for action through on-line dating. She typically received a hundred or more replies any time she placed an ad (on a well-known classified site, not FriendFinder-x). She deleted a lot of the replies right away (unsolicited cock pictures, illiterate writing, obvious copy-and-paste, overt creepiness, etc.), but usually still ended up with a dozen or more in her first cut. She'd exchange a few more messages with each guy in the first cut, and almost always found one worth a meet-and-greet without having to place the ad again (unless her ad got deleted because too many people thought it was too good to be true, and flagged it). If she had any no-shows for the meet-and-greets, she didn't tell me about it. More often than not, the meet-and-greet would go well enough to proceed to a second meeting (on a different day), in private. None of her private encounters turned out dangerous, most didn't even turn out creepy, most were reasonably satisfying, and a couple were worth a second time (but no thirds, because she didn't want to give anyone the wrong idea). That seems like a darn good record, but she knew how to get a lot of information out of written screening. For me, I typically managed fewer than one reply in ten to the messages I wrote in response to ads. (I didn't try to place my own ads.) Of those, I managed fewer than a dozen meet-and-greets, and exactly one sex date (with a very young woman who was snowed in during a huge snow storm, and answered the door wearing a towel). In short, her results were much better than mine. Fortunately, however, we met, and now we can both have great sex dates (and everything else that goes with a relationship) any time we are in the mood.
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