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Motherhood, Complexity, & Nuance
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Motherhood, Complexity, & Nuance I once had a guy on here saying something about how he wasn't interested in mothers because he didn't want to interfere with their relationships with their , or interfere with their being present for their . First of all, a woman can, and should, have relationships that are not centered on just her . How do you expect her to remain sane when they are<b> teenagers </font></b>if that's all she focuses on? Secondly, determining whether or not a woman has good judgement regarding her has nothing to do with whether or not she has a sex partner...since when can't women be both good sex partners AND be good mothers! Thirdly, if you are an asshat to a mother, she has less time for your bullshit, so she is less likely to bother with you and your nonsense, so you had better have your shit together. Fourthly, if you aren't going to assume women can deal with their own responsibiilities AND have a sex partner, don't date women. You obviously don't respect their independence or their autonomy, and so they really don't need your bullshit. I'm not saying for you to keep your eyes shut and ignore serious warning signs, but the idea that a mother wants to fuck something other than her toys is NOT any kind of indicator that she is a bad mom. Have some nuance and some complexity.   MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=} |
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Happy Mother's Day!
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5/14/2017 11:58 am |
I like your thoughts in your blog and I agree with you. Mothers have their needs just like any other women.
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I bet the man who made that comment was simply trying to justify his own selfishness. He is not worried about interfering with your relationship with your kids. He is worried about the kids interfering with your attention to him. I don't have kids of my own, but if I were on the dating scene I would love to date a woman with kids. There is no point in re-living my college days when there are new types of adventures to be had.  My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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Being a mother is just one of many things that many women do and should be acknowledged and even celebrated. Happy Mother's Day!  
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First point: Happy Mother's Day! It seems like guys on here say the stupidest things. Do they really think it improves their chances of getting sex if they are rude? (Yes, I know about the whole "pick up artist" thing about insults as a test to find women with low self-esteem, but even if that might work in person it's not going to work on-line.) Does it make them feel better about getting rejected or something? A quote: He is not worried about interfering with your relationship with your kids. He is worried about the kids interfering with your attention to him. This looks like an accurate analysis of the guy who inspired this topic.
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