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What he said.  

gymrat1974 49F  
1057 posts
10/7/2016 4:09 pm
What he said.


Ok, so I'm a single woman in 2016. Believe it or not, I write smut with the intention of doing so for a living. I do. It was actually my eating disorder<b> therapist </font></b>who suggested it. She said if I was going to write, I needed to write erotica because it sells. So, I use all sorts of coarse language and tell embarrassingly vulgar stories. And I was reminded of something I learned in college, which is that many writers write for Playboy for their paycheck and for Guideposts for their salvation. Plus, like I said, I'm a single woman. I have been privy to much locker room banter. If you are naive enough to think some people don't talk like that, I truly don't know what to say. Further, I'd be a hypocrite to say I'm offended by Trump's colorful description of body parts. So, what can I say? Well, I don't write about believing I'm entitled to take what I want from people against their will. I don't have a history of being a sexist pig that I'm trying ever so hard to convince people is not actually me. I don't abuse people for sport. I've never been accused of assaulting anyone. I'm not braggadocios about harming people. I do know the difference between creative writing and reality. And most importantly, I'm not running for president, and on the family values ticket, no less. I say all that to say you won't hear/see me calling Trump a pig for this particular video, though I do indeed think he's a pig. You will hear me say this is just another piece of the puzzle that collectively says Trump is not presidential material. And I'm grateful if it loses the guy more votes and harms the reputation of his Republican Party supporters.

I do think/hope this will finally cost him the votes of many of his hangers on. The clergy, the mothers, aunts, grandmothers of women every where. The fathers and grandfathers and uncles of little girls. But there will still be plenty, even among those listed, who will have to do so under the realization of the error of their ways and not because they've never talked like that or heard someone else talk like that before.

I post this here because I'm curious to know. We are on an adult sex/dating site. Anything and everything goes here. Even among us who will and have said, watched, and participated in all sorts of stuff, do you think this is the thing that will upend his candidacy like nothing else has so far? Do we recognize the difference between our often fantasy like sex life and what we want for the real world?

gymrat1974 49F  
557 posts
10/14/2016 11:18 am

The words are one thing. The actions are another.


gymrat1974 49F  
557 posts
11/2/2016 8:06 am

Being famous doesn't make one competent. As for why no one went after him, I have no answer for that. It's not a justification to vote for him, however.


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