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Blogs > gymrat1974 > ManwranglerJen

Always the fat lady, never the bride  

gymrat1974 49F  
1056 posts
2/11/2020 5:45 am
Always the fat lady, never the bride

So I’m going to be honest right here and say that while I have the desire to get my eating disorder recovery back on track, I haven’t had the motivation or the energy. It is difficult to be as hyper vigilant as I need to be about my recovery process and still manage to work, laugh, play, and breathe.

However, there are two things occurring simultaneously that have helped to ignite my inner motivational fire. The first is that I can’t seem to get fucked for anything these days. The second is that my and her boyfriend are looking at engagement rings. I cannot be the fat mother of the bride. I refuse to be the fat mother of the bride. The day will of course be all about her. I have no desire to steal the show or upstage her, but if I have to be present for all of the preparation and the<b> parties </font></b>and the joy and the laughter, then I also don’t want to do anything to shame or humiliate either her or myself throughout the entire process. She is my best friend, and I am super proud of her and want her to be proud of me, too. Besides, I have every intention of staying sober and still managing to take home one of the groomsman.

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
2/11/2020 5:54 am

 Sounds like you've got a plan worked out. Go for it! 👍 😊 ❗
Sober at a wedding 💒? 🤔
Now THAT... might be a challenge. 😮🍷🍷
Ya got some time to make things happen... 💙☕☕


gymrat1974 replies on 2/11/2020 6:11 am:
I don’t drink at all, so it will be no big deal for me.

Orzod 39M

2/11/2020 6:18 am

 Good luck and best of health to you. I get the feeling that your challenge leading up to the wedding day will be way more difficult than the challenge ypi set For The wedding day


Njfire3sum3 53M
Ask me for a photo
25 posts
2/11/2020 6:19 am

 Good luck hope it works for you


Frausamans12 46M
Ask me for a photo

2/11/2020 6:24 am

 I’ve been the groom at the wrong wedding apparently


gymrat1974 replies on 2/11/2020 6:27 am:
Ha!

VAguy7572020 38M

2/11/2020 6:26 am

 Id love to hear more!


gymrat1974 replies on 2/11/2020 7:23 am:
What would you like to hear/read?

boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
2/11/2020 8:31 am

 Go for it!!!!


poorboyfloyd 60M
9 posts
2/21/2020 2:51 am

 I am an expert on nutrition and health. ONLY carbohydrates add fat to your body.


justme51 72M

3/7/2020 4:57 am

 Just be your self. Be happy about your self no matter what.


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