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Everybody's Got a Story
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Everybody's Got a Story Everyone gets into the LS for different reasons. We got into it because I thought we needed to mix it up a little and there are some fantasies that require more than the two of us to fulfill. That reason is still valid, but as we become more involved in the LS, our reasons for staying have evolved. It is now more social than sexual. Don't get me wrong, the "Sex with Others" is always there in the background, but it is more of a bonus than a requirement. I have always been a flirt and a tease, and was very good at both, but there was always a point that i needed to curtail myself due to having to abide by vanilla proprieties. When amoung my LS friends I no longer feel said restraints. No one has said stop, or given me that look that says I have crossed some invisible line. This may be because I have not fully set free my inner tease, or that my friends are freakier than I thought, either way it is freeing to be with people who enjoy your talents and are not judgemental  Although I am not absolutely certain of hubby's motivations for continuing on this journey, I am certain that variety has something to do with it, along with a marked increase in my libido. I have stated before that in the past I was basically a serial monogamist, hubby was not. For all intents and puposes he was a slut. I asked him once what his "number" was and he didn't even want to hazard a guess. I on the other hand had no problems, including hubby there was 6. Between babies, school, and relationships, I never really got to go through a "slutty" phase. That was my main personal motivator to get into the LS. Hubby would tell me stories of his sexcapades, and I would get so turned on. I wanted to have my own sexy stories to tell and the lifestyle seemed the ideal place to do that, probably much more safely than I would have in my 20's, and I would get to do it with the love of my life, best of both worlds  Hubby has had several fantasies fulfilled already, and although watching/being part of those was also part of my fantasies, I have yet to cross anything off of my personal bucket list. I am unsure if it is because I haven't found the right people, or that I have not really released my inner slut for one reason or another. Hubby has the advantage of having his inner slut slavering at the bars of the prison he had him in the last 18 years, so he just fell back into it. His inner slut was more than willing to abide by the few rules we had in place in exchange for parole lol  I, on the otherhand, am thinking that my inner slut is probably still somewhat trapped by some lingering vanilla moral hang ups. I may need more time, or maybe some chemical intervention to get over myself. Or it may just be that the right people and situation have not met yet. Only time will tell I guess    |
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Knowing you, you will get what you want  Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it
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goot thoughts thanks for shearing
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I started on this site to fulfill some fantasies and even though I have fulfilled a few, I have found friends. I agree it is nice to be able to have conversations with people and not be afraid to talk about certain subjects. I enjoy the joking and teasing as well. So for me it has become more than just fulfilling fantasies, I enjoy meeting people and having conversations, and not only about sexual things.
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