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I am so sorry hun for your loss, I can sympathize with you so much here.. I hope you can get out there now and enjoy your life, and have some fun now. Keeping busy is the best medicine right now.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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We're all presented with a blank canvas and many times the colors splashed on are chosen for us and in spite of us! No matter what, we can't judge our own work - when that painting is only half finished. It would be unfair. So finish the rest of it . . . and then stand back . . . and judge it . ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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don't be sad remember the good times there will be more don't ever give up look at the things you have and enjoy them I hope this helps a little wish I was near to listen to you to see what is happening
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8/18/2018 12:01 pm |
im sorry for your loss and oftentimes we say things when were upset or do not mean. let it go...it shows you loved your husband and remember the best of times. now get out and live your life you hot sexy lady.
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Being a caregiver for a long time proves that you are Strong. It will take you some time to adjust to the new normal in your life. Allow yourself to grieve, and take baby steps at what will be like in putting yourself and your needs 1st. Self-care may be your most important job during the difficult months ahead. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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Please don't blame yourself for what you felt or said before he passed away. You're allowed to have feelings, even when they're of anger, frustration, loneliness or anything else. They're YOUR feelings and you can't change them, just like the sad feelings you're having now. You're grieving. It takes time and it's not the same for everyone. If writing helps, please write more! We'll be here to read your words. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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Hugs!! We could want to be loved soo much!!!
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Give yourself time and never hold back. Embrace the cry. Don’t supress it. Things will improve for you. I have been there.
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I'm never one to say, "don't be sad", "don't cry". For one, saying it, isn't going to magically make it all better. Second it's a part of life that we all have to deal with from time to time. Find someone close to you that you can talk to, not explain stuff to you, just there to listen. Someone who has a willing shoulder for you to cry on. Then let it out. It is amazing what we can learn to live with, and if you were a caregiver for a time, you have the strength to see your way though the tunnel. I sincerely hope you find your happiness again, and you find that in reality, the best years are still out there. Peace. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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The human heart is such a frail thing, yet so strong. Like all of us I've seen my share of heartbreaks. This too shall pass never really does fully... it lingers always just under the surface. Ah... tis life. Thoughts from the Garden...
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Dear Vicki, you are a giving, caring himan and your feelings are natural I can assure you. Writing and expressing your emotions, feelings and thoughts is good for your overall healing process, whatever you do don't keep it bottled up inside, talk about it in whatever form that takes to give you cathartic release. You are a good person who did good for someone else, something a lot of us would not be brave enough to do. I'll send you hugs and prayers for your healing and happiness.
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Vicki, Keep writing! Here or a private journal. I helps, I know it worked for me when I was the care giver. And NEVER be sad for your thoughts and feelings. They are your and yours alone. Be gentle on yourself. Please feel free to contact me should you want to talk and explore.
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Love is love, it's more than words.
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I am sorry for your loss. Remember the good times.
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None of us can really understand how you are feeling - but we can sympathize. No matter what we all wish we could do and what we'd like to tell you, there are really no words that make the pain and sadness magically go away. It is just so soon and the feelings too intense for that. Talking and writing your feelings down can help as can finding a support group of people going through similar things to discuss your feelings with. When my mom had to deal with losing my dad after 50 years of marriage, she attended support group meetings a couple of times and just knowing that what she was feeling was normal and that she wasn't alone in those thoughts of sadness, loneliness (and guilt) helped her tremendously.
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Very sorry for your loss. I hope time heals your sadness.
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write as much as u want we r here for u
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After the first time I read this post , I wrote my blog post, called - Accidentally In Love... This is the second time I'm reading your post... and I don't know what I'll write. I'm not feeling particularly happy.. I wish I could say something positive to help you. Just a mood I'm in... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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