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I'm Confused
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I'm Confused So I have been on this site for a month or so now, and I am feeling a bit confused, or maybe a bit of a double standard. This site is filled with beautiful women, some are single, some are married or attached looking for something extra which is all fine by me. Over the years I have had my share of FWB, dated, and FWB & Dated married women who needed something extra with their husband or<b> boyfriends </font></b>permission. What I find confusing is that so many women on this site state that they are not interested in men who post "dick" pictures in their profile, and I have none. Another confusion I find is women on this site can be married or attached and play around but us guys can not be married and play around. Seems like a double standard to me. I don't post X-rated or Dick pictures, I am not married, engaged, or dating anyone, but yet it no one is willing to meet. |
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For me, the Dominant part of your profile would turn me off. Perhaps others feel the same? There are many double standards here, such as the typical Men are Studs but Women are sluts. It is what it is, and people want - or don't want - what they want. It takes time. Good luck to you.
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4/30/2016 10:14 am |
This site and most people on it are either cam whackers or fat masturbating females who have a cunt like a catchers mitt...Very Very little real folks on here who actually meet! 
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I would have to concur with Benard but would chose a more delicate and nicer way of describing a catchers mitt. If that is the only double standard you have run into you are in for a very big surprise. Using more than all the road!
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Dick Pics It's not a double standard so much as appealing to the audience you want to attract. Most women who are actually looking to meet a man in person and possibly have sex with him, aren't fond of seeing dick pic as a man's profile pic. It's not unfair or a double standard if it's what someone (or in this case most of the someones) prefers. If a man feels like he *must* have a dick pic, I tell him to put it in a folder in his album so anyone who wants to see it has access to it. On the flip side, women know that varying amounts of nudity will get them the kind of attention most of them are on this site for. They give men what they are looking for to get I'm curious about something. You aren't the first man to call this unfair, but what's unfair about it? Why Your Inbox Might Be Empty First, a month isn't a very long time on this site. It's not just about you liking a particular woman, she's got to like you back. Despite the hype in some of their ads, finding women here is not like ordering a pizza. The same way you're looking for a woman who matches what you are looking for in terms of age, race, interests, proximity, etc; women are doing the same thing. Add to that the fact that there are more men than women, it's not unusual for it to take a few months to actually connect with someone. As for your profile, dick pics and marital status are just a couple of things that can affect a woman's interest in your profile. There are a couple of things I can see in your profile that can have a negative effect. First, and I rarely say this, but your description is *way* too long. men get criticized for having vague 2 sentence description but having one that's longer than a couple of paragraphs is just too much. I'm curious why you would use a picture of yourself in a car as a profile pic instead of one fo the face shots you have. No one cares about your car they want to determine if they are attracted to you or not. As someone mentioned above, saying you are Dominant and describing yourself as a Master, both with capital letters, means something very specific and it's going to limit you to the kind of women who will get what that means and is looking for that kind of dynamic. I also think that the fact you say you are relocating will kill a woman's interest. Few women, even if they are looking for something more casual, want a lover who'll be gone in a couple of months. I think you have the seeds of a good profile but there are few things you can do to better your chances of meeting a woman. Best of luck to you .
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