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Foreplay: Is it that Important???
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Foreplay: Is it that Important??? This is the most debated conversation which one can have. Many women want this and many men don’t, some say that this is overrated.. But is this the truth??? Let’s try finding out something more about this. Meaning: The dictionary meaning: sexual stimulation of one's partner, usually as a prelude to sexual intercourse. Why is it Required? In human sexual behaviour, foreplay is a set of emotionally and physically intimate acts between two or more people meant to create sexual arousal and desire for sexual activity. Either or any of the sexual partners may indicate sexual interest to initiate foreplay, and the initiator may not be the active partner during the sexual activity. Foreplay stimulates both partners' sexuality, lowers<b> inhibitions </font></b>and increases emotional intimacy between partners, and implies a certain level of confidence and trust between the partners. In animal sexual behaviour, the loose equivalent is sometimes termed 'precoital activity'. Sexual desire is an aspect of a person's sexuality, which varies from one person to another. A person who desires sexual activity with another person can provoke sexual arousal in the person. Depending on the type and intensity of the relationship between the two people, the stimuli may involve indicating to the person in some subtle and romantic way that he or she has that desire or by provoking other erotic stimuli. There are many potential stimuli, both physical, and/or mental which can cause a person to become sexually aroused, and which stimuli are invoked will depend on circumstances at a particular time. So, how actually can this be initiated? Foreplay can begin with one person indicating in some manner to another person a desire to engage in sexual activity with that other person. Any act that creates and enhances sexual desire, interest, stimulation or arousal in a sexual partner may constitute foreplay. An indication of sexual desire can be through physical intimacy, such as kissing, touching, embracing or nibbling the partner. Mental engagement can also create sexual interest, such as flirting, talking, whispering or teasing. It may, for example, be a non-physical gesture that indicates sexual availability. Sexual interest can be indicated and created by nudity, such as by one partner stripping, or by wearing sexually suggestive clothing, or by creating a romantic, intimate, or overtly sexual atmosphere. The manual or oral touching of an erogenous zone may indicate sexual interest, as does an intimate kiss on the mouth, breasts, stomach, buttocks, back and inner thighs or other areas of the body. A passionate or French kiss commonly indicates sexual interest, as does any removal of a partner's clothing. Verbally, foreplay may include compliments, subtle comments with double entendre, and intimate conversations. Non-verbally, foreplay can include provocative clothing, suggestive postures and motions, preening gestures, winking, licking or biting one's lips, standing inside a partner's personal space, and holding a gaze longer than would be expected from only a casual interest. Foreplay commences when the other partner indicates reciprocal sexual interest. Depending on the context, the non-objection to a partner's advances may indicate that the sexual interest is reciprocated, as may a response to a kiss or hug. The non-objection to the touching of an erogenous zone, or the taking off of an item of clothing may indicate reciprocated sexual interest. Also, the other partner may indicate reciprocal interest by engaging in intimate behaviour of their own. There are situations which act as turn-offs or which can affect the romantic or erotic moment that may have been created. Turn-offs can range from things like bad breath, body odor, excessive noise or a reference to an ex-partner. A person's sexual inhibition can also impact on creation or maintenance of sexual interest. Some people feel uncomfortable with acts such as French kissing, or the possibility of someone (e.g. ) intruding, or nudity, besides other situations. Everybody agrees to the fact that Women take more time than Men in being Sexually Aroused. Preheating her oven (more commonly known as foreplay) is integral to a worthwhile lovemaking session. Failing to do so can easily ruin the mood -- or leave her unsatisfied (which you do not want under any circumstances). Sex without foreplay means you’re not taking her needs into consideration, because foreplay is often much more important to women than it is to men, as the overall mood and the journey along the way is integral to the female orgasm. Also on the other women do not bed like the men do.. They want the confidence to be built up before they bed someone. They have a lot of<b> inhibitions. </font></b>They do not want a hush hush even if it’s a one night stand. Hence, foreplay lowers<b> inhibitions </font></b>and increases intimacy between partners prior to intercourse, so it’s like you’re mutually opening the doors to her special place instead of rudely barging right in. At times, when it comes to lovemaking, a number of men tend to worry about the size of their penis rather than how they should please their women. Again, if you know the arts of Foreplay, Size Really does not matter….. Many of us here and those who are reading this agree, sometimes, while impromptu sexual encounters without foreplay can sometimes be some of the best sexual experiences, most women will agree that good sexual intercourse begins with good foreplay, which increases the pleasure for both partners. Having said all this, why is it so important to have one? Following may give you, the nearest possible, answers: * In women, it helps stimulate the process that leads to erection of the clitoris, raising of the cervix (elongation of the vaginal canal), and the production of vaginal lubrication, allowing penetration to take place comfortably and effectively. * When a woman becomes sexually aroused as a result of foreplay, the blood flow to the genital area is increased, causing the engorgement of the genital tissue (the clitoris, which has the same characteristics as Penis, and labia). The vaginal wall dilates and also, the vagina becomes elongated. * The right foreplay techniques can result in the woman having multiple orgasms, either before or during sexual intercourse as against not having one at all even after 20 minutes of pure sex. * Foreplay mentally arouses a woman, making her more comfortable to indulge in intercourse with her partner. * Foreplay makes you know just what your partner likes and ways in which you can please her. * As couples age, both partners will need a little extra spice to get fully aroused in order to achieve maximum pleasure. The man will need to prolong foreplay to get an erection and the woman will need the same to become properly lubricated. Hope the above was in anyway useful who wanted it. Others kindly excuse, no hard feelings. Have penned down what I thought, any comments & suggestions are welcome… Thanks for sparing your time in reading my Blog… Watch out for more…… |
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