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up4fun751 54M  
44 posts
9/4/2020 12:53 am

I prefer a thanks but no thanks type reply. At least I know where I stand with that particular woman. I will always reply with something along the lines of "no worries & have fun" & leave it at that.
It'd be a boring world if we all liked the same thing!
Part of the problem on here is that some standard members can reply, others can't. So you're unaware if they're not replying because they're not interested, or because they can't. Lack of replies should never lead to abusive messages though. Why waste time sending them?!


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
9/4/2020 5:08 am

The ratio of men to women, excluding flake profiles and bots, is similar to the ratio of the population of India, including cows, to the population of the village of Worth Matravers in Devon..........I'm glad I was able to clear that up for you McSilky!

I've always found the adverse reaction of these guys to a polite knock back bamboozling. Some idiots (sorry, but there's no better descriptor) even resort to abusive responses. I think that's why a lot of ladies don't even bother responding, and I know several who simply block without a response if the guy's profile doesn't match (or if it's clear he hasn't read their profile), with a view to avoiding the abuse altogether.

Why can't people just behave online as they would in the real world? I guess the worry is that some of these guys would behave like that on the streets!

Personally, I'd much prefer a response of any sort, even if it's a direct knock back. But if I don't receive anything back, well fair enough, the lady isn't interested, move on.

Such a shame you've been hounded in this way, but please don't let it prevent you from continuing to interact here.

Also, it's a pleasure to read your prose, even if the subject matter is difficult. You do write very well, more please?

Otherwise, I hope you're well m'dear.


Mr_Mercedes 61M
617 posts
9/5/2020 7:38 pm

Replies are nice, even if it’s a ‘No Thanks’, but I get it when there’s silence; because I hear about the abusive behavior here towards women from some of the trash that frequents this place.

So like the odds in you pool of six, the odds are unfortunately against you of getting a rational, respectful response from the majority. You just have to take that into account and deal with it discerningly.


Looking for Mischief


gattomonstrosis 58M
881 posts
4/17/2021 3:56 am

Men (or at least me) tend not to get many messages from women so some guys who don't think about why that might be assume it's the same for women, and so assume that it would be no trouble for a woman to reply to every message they get, even if there is not really very much to reply to.
It doesn't take much thought to realise the true possibilities behind lack of responses but our modern culture doesn't really lend itself to that, we're used to instant gratification, to getting likes for inane drivel and seeing snubs everywhere that we don't get likes.
It's stupid, it's not hard to think "Maybe i got buried?" or "OK, she's not interested, c'est la vie" but a lot of people don't want to think that they don't stand out from the crowd or appeal to whoever appeals to them, so they get frustrated instead, work themselves up over it until the anger takes over and they start to hate anyone who doesn't follow their script.
It often amazes me that any women at all are prepared to brave the incel breeding grounds, i know if i were in their place i'd say "Fuck this!!" and find something else to do.


SilverFoxMark66 69M
286 posts
2/11/2022 10:26 am

Good post SV, at 1st I was a little shocked (& naturally disappointed) with lack of replies to my msgs when I 1st joined here last April 2021, especially as so many profiles seemed so keen to "hookup" to satisfy their needs, so I only sent the 1 msg & kept going; now I'm waiting for minor surgery I tend just to read the daily blogs & comment or answer their Qs; I still look forward to some female company later post op March though, maybe even with you fr that lunch, dinner, coffee, big warm horny hugs Mark


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