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Cuddle, or no cuddle?  

Irene978 43F
18 posts
5/6/2016 7:39 pm
Cuddle, or no cuddle?

You hook up and when all is said and done you grab your clothes (if they can be found) and leave.
Oh sure, you have that moment and you say, yeah it was good, of course I want to do it again, message me and we will do it again. Sometimes you mean it, sometimes you don't. I haven't not meant it .....yet.....
Am I the only one that just wants to go home and go to bed alone?
Don't get me wrong, I love to cuddle! Just don't do it after fucking me, or cumming on my face or where ever.
Sure we can cuddle, if we are taking a break in between. That shit is awesome.

Hmmmm how about that hug or kiss goodbye?
Isn't that, like, a couple thing?
Give me a pat on the back or wave from the car.
Text me.
Shit, tell me it was good and we will talk soon. Even if it's not true.

Please tell me, am I the only one who is thinking like this?
Are my "walls up" (as my friend would say)?
Or do I spend too much time with guy friends that I'm starting to think like one?

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/6/2016 7:54 pm

 I've done a few one night only things - 2 of them wanted me to stay and cuddle because they didn't like sleeping alone - so I did.

Having dealt for years with an ex who often had her "walls up" it kind of sounds that way
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


BULL_4_HOTWife 38M
915 posts
5/6/2016 8:29 pm

 Yup! I Agreed with you.....Things should be like that only!

Its a special gesture towards your partner for all the good fun moments shared together

Cheers
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Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
5/7/2016 10:05 am

 I am with you!! No cuddling....I like the way you think!! Welcome to blog land!!


Irene978 43F
3 posts
5/7/2016 10:43 am

 Well thank you.
It's not that I'm against cuddling but that's a before not an after kinda thing....lol


OttawaMan43sum 53M
2220 posts
5/7/2016 3:24 pm

 What about napping afterwards in the same bed but not touching each other, facing the opposite direction, until such time as both parties wake up and either want to resume or say adios?


Irene978 replies on 5/7/2016 5:48 pm:
I don't mind a cuddle or spooning in between "rounds" so to speak, but on the whole, when all is said and done, not so much....

upncummer69 45M
155 posts
5/8/2016 7:15 am

 Sounds great to me! I could cuddle or not. Makes no difference to me


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