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AFF Profiles * Emails & Chat Biggest Mistakes POV
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AFF Profiles * Emails & Chat Biggest Mistakes POV Am directing this more towards the males. My POV for profiles & chat. Find it easier to list it than write it as a blog. Here it goes. PROFILES: 1. If you do not have any pics you need to understand you are up against thousands of others competing for the smaller number of women on this site. 2. Females don't want their time wasted being directed to view your pics elsewhere. 3. Posting a pic of whatever part you post of the same pic several times is just ridiculous. 4. Not having a face pic or lack of body pics show you're playing games. 5. If your pics are fakes that's just pathetic. 6. Anything that is fake or a lie in your profile is pathetic shows you're playing games. We're adults expect you to act like one. 7. If you have 1 line or 2 in your profile shows that you will lack sexually if you aren't putting effort into your profile you're obviously not gonna put effort into being with that person (my POV). 8. Keep it real. Females know all the lines don't manipulate. 9. The entire point of the profile is to have the basic essential information completed with a face pic. The most awkward thing is to see a hot body then have to reject someone because their face.body pic is not attractive. Put it all out there so a decision can be made & this way nobody's time is wasted. 10. Many women in their account set up have clicked on the invisible option while viewing profiles. If there is some interest only way she can determine if she truly is interested is looking at your profile. You males then get obnoxious & send emails out to all who has viewed your profile. Just because someone viewed you doesn't mean there is an interest. 11. Females feel "if you can view me you better bet your ass I better be able to view you too" it needs to work both ways. Again there is that option in the account where you can filter members who do not have pics or completed profiles not to contact you. EMAILS: 1. Most of us have lives & do not want our time wasted. Those emails "hello" get deleted & blocked. Seriously why even bother. 2. We know you cut & paste your message & send it out to several women the same wording. 3. Manipulation we know the game it doesn't work just stop. 4. You cut & past or email some porn shit. It's just laughable women don't even read it. 5. If you aren't local & we're here for real meets why even bother with an email when you will get no reply? 6. Why send rude emails? Just immature & you get blocked people don't care about your opinion & view you as crazy. 7. Why some males expect a reply? Isn't the answer obvious if someone doesn't reply they aren't interested. Just move on... really move on... 8. Women get hundreds of emails a day. We filter through them by the face pic & location. If i'm not attracted to you I won't even read what you have to say. If you're not stating what you want in you're 1st email I can't be bothered. Most of us not into the email game. We like confident secure males who know what they want. 9. Do you expect us to be honest with you when you males lie to us, don't think so. We always find out the truth. Don't be frontin your shit. CHAT: 1. Whether it be in the chat rooms or IM all males asking the same thing "watch me cum" ... no ty. Understand females get this asked 1 million times a day. We realize you go to every single girl in the room asking in every room. It does NOTHING for us except waste our time. We aren't here to service you. You're confused. Am not saying some females won't but when you're here a lot like myself & most others those words are just regurgitated every second & it's played out. 2. Everybody here for a different reason. Don't assume because you have a dick every girl is going to want you. Women need a connection. Males just need a pulse & a fuckhole. 3. Engage a female into chat. Flirt & pull her into your convo. If you do not know how to flirt observe others. Having a sense of humor is key. 4. Worse offenders are repeaters. Who repeat the same shit over & over & over it's obnoxious & annoying. It reduces your chances because those types go to the ignore list & get blocked nobody wants to deal with dat shit. 5. If you are mean nasty rude or attack others in chat most will IGNORE you & block you we aren't here for YOUR drama leave that shit at the door. 6. It's truly incredible males will hit on women with no pics just to get them off find it mind blowing but hey if that's your thang not my business but please don't hit on me it shows you have no substance. Same for those who tell a women she's hot cos her body pics are hot but she has no face pics her face could look like a monster but you tell her she's hot. As for me I do not use empty words I don't say something unless I mean it. I don't spew compliments am str8 up. 7. Just cos someone is in chat doest't mean they wanna engage in chat. 8. THIS IS THE BIG ONE.... Don't assume someone is here for the same reasons that you are here...seriously are you kidding you can't be more self centered. Don't assume someone is into the same sexual stuff you are into either. 9. Don't be pushy it's just gonna get you blocked & onto the ignore list. How can you not understand this by now? 10. Experienced want experienced in most cases not all but most. 11. The worse thang you can do is agree with a female on everything in her profile & agree with everything in chat in other words if you're an ass kisser w/o any opinion of your own just to get someone to watch your cam or get you to cum that makes you utterly pathetic. It show's you can't think for yourself. 12. Begging ... for fuck sake just don't go there. If we don't wanna chat or view you move along, c'mon really .. just stop. 13. Don't be frontin ya stuff we know we know keep it real. 14. The way you act in the public chat rooms towards others are seen by other people. Your displaying who you are & what you are all about so if you attack others & are mean it's not attractive. 15. Males this may come as a shock but we know every line every manipulation tactic every move. Females want someone with the unique technique who know how to reach out to us in a special way. It's not that difficult to figure out.. just be who you are with a bit of spice! 16. Never understood why people come into chat for the sole purpose to abuse others obviously they never became adults. They need to understand NOBODY has to tolerate their abuse & most likely not only their victim but others block them. (that's another POV in itself) This is all I'm going to say on the subject. Summary: This is my POV. Your comments are most welcome! Be adults & don't be rude it's seriously not necessary & it's immature. Ripping apart others gets you nowhere fast. Don't forget whatever you post to my blogs others will see what you're about too you may want to keep that in mind.  |
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the crazy thing about it is that as long as this list is, it's purely the simplest things lol especially that begging part....boy that's horrible
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Love the lists. Can't say I agree with everything but boy, you know how to list. There are other reasons that might have to do with discretion. BTW, love the picture. I remember as a kid playing the cowboy!! Enjoy your day.
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Gorgeous. Breathtaking. And I love your writing. I've found my new FriendFinder-x crush Midnight
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