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Meeting Couples  

TNd37379 66M/48F
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5/23/2017 1:10 pm
Meeting Couples

Wow, there are so many couples on FriendFinder-x, it should be very easy to find one to meet and play with. It often times is not easy at all, there are so many profiles where the couple isn't really a couple but just the man trying to troll his way into meeting. They aren't usually to hard to spot and can be ignored, we have met a number of couples over the years and have had varying degrees of success. From no shows, to the couple where the wife just liked to watch, to the couple who was 20 years older than their pics, we have had some good and bad meetings.
This left us asking the question; How do you meet a quality couple you want to play with?
We have found out a few things over the years we have been in the lifestyle. Never be in a hurry, never settle for just one pic, Ask the tough questions and questions about what they want and like to do. We are a full swap, same room, same bed couple, we just don;t meet couples who just want to watch or just do some version of a soft swap, that's not what we are into, its not mean, it is just fact.
This lifestyle always has new people who are nervous about the "how to" of it. OK, you've and had dinner and drinks, now what?
Sometimes, it a thank you and goodbye, and sometimes a drag race to the hotel to play. Don't be afraid to say, "No thanks" if it just doesn't feel right.
We recently met a couple and for the first time in a very long time, we liked them, we had dinner, drinks, played, and have spoken and texted since. We are going to a play party with them just a few days after this posts and it should be fun.
We talked to them, texted and emailed for over a year before we got to meet, our jobs and some health issues made our schedules, and theirs, tough to work with.
Patience, perseverance, and a bit of research make for more successful meetings.
Have fun, go meet people, go to parties, enjoy the lifestyle.

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