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Thoughts  

PDXKinkGirl 55F  
13 posts
7/16/2016 2:49 am
Thoughts

I have met a few people from this site. One has turned out to be really fucking cool. The others were less than stellar selfish pricks or passing ships and mostly horrible and nothing I care to repeat. I consider this a road of sexual self discovery.

I like transitional fluid relationships. I am not at all interested in finding a boyfriend or making someone 'mine,' not in the traditional sense. I love being single. Lifestyle is a different consideration.

I think perhaps married, open, looking...I might be a good fit with that. Married, not open...cheating, I am not a good fit for. I tried it here for the first and only time in my life just to see how it would go so I could have the life experience and be able to better identify with the people who actually engage in this activity. It is not a good fit for me.

I have a hard time making the leap from talking to meeting if it is jumping right into casual sex. The meet in a neutral place to say hello and see if we both agree that going forward is amenable to each is much more comfortable. I think I need that step to feel safe and be able to let the guard down to engage with a new partner. That being said, sometimes there are exceptions. A horny girl with no batteries might just do something crazy once in a while as long as it doesn't lead to experiences in paragraph A.

I like knowing any rules or boundaries.

And sleepy time commeth. luv 420

nizelymade 47M
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20 posts
7/16/2016 3:13 am

 that's right!


DingDon1960 64M

7/16/2016 3:42 am

 Life is a ride , sometimes it hits a bumpy road .Just keep looking for the smooth long stretches .


playrod1 53M
51 posts
7/16/2016 5:46 am

 Good post with precautions


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
7/18/2016 7:19 pm

 I believe that more people on here are like you. They are looking, not for a one time quick one, but for something that meets their needs. Nothing wrong with that. I do believe this is a journey on here. You start in one place and take a trip of exploring. Where you wind up is a guess. I think successful people on here are respectful and open.


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