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How did you choose your threesome partners?  

luvable_lioness 45F
55 posts
6/21/2016 1:05 pm
How did you choose your threesome partners?


This is for those who have had a threesome or are looking to do so.

How did/do you decide who was/is the right fit for your threesome?

When I was younger I had males friends that I could trust who I knew were safe, clean, and respectful. However, after returning to my birthplace after 11 years away, I do not have the same relationships with people. In fact, I don't have a relationship with anyone here except my family.

So I would like to peak inside the lives of others who have had a threesome and obtain information on how they made the decision about their partners. I know that it is different for married couples as opposed to single people.

I look forward to hearing what tips you all can provide and I thank you in advance.

northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
6/21/2016 2:03 pm

Not very different than a 1-on-1 meet. Attraction, compatibility, proximity, shared sexual interests. You chat, get a feel for them and then meet to confirm real world chemistry.

Big difference with couples is initial communication. It's often the guy driving these experiences, so if that's not your thing, let them know (I think women can demand such consideration).

Be wary of fakes, i.e. married guy posing as couple looking for discreet fun.

Finally, kissing and contraception. You may want to get a feel for how that usually plays out. And you should certainly make your preferences clear on these items.

... off the top of my head

Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


luvable_lioness replies on 6/22/2016 10:03 am:
That is very sound advice. Thank you

doublestuff3000 56M
69 posts
6/21/2016 4:15 pm

My 3sum is with 2 I know very well...my left and right hands...


luvable_lioness replies on 6/22/2016 10:05 am:
Hahahahaha

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