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Suggestion #2: Profile pic  

babeegurl70 53F
36 posts
1/7/2017 8:05 am
Suggestion #2: Profile pic


I get asked quite a bit by men how to improve their profile. I'm no expert & I can only make suggestions from my perspective. I don't claim to represent all women, but I will be happy to pass along my ideas.

Ok, now that you have gold status and thus the means to communicate with someone, you now need to put up a profile pic that will attract attention. You need to determine your target audience and cater to their tastes.

Personally, and I think most women will agree, I prefer face pics. Dick pics are a turn-off. There are so many on here that there is no shock value to them any more. You might as well post a pic of your elbow. I'm not saying chock shots don't have their place in your profile, but not as your main pic. Yes, I have naughty pics on here, but for the most part, they are classy and/or artistic. They are buried in my pic folder. My target are men. Men are visual creatures. Good advertising includes pussy shots, boobs and blow jobs. Women are emotional. Show us who you are. A face pic will tell us whether or not you're a cousin. If she tells Grandma you are here, then she's telling on herself too. Remember there is more of a stigma for women on here than men (sluts vs studs connotation). I know in some parts of Missouri, especially about 2 counties south of here, fucking a cousin is considered normal, but hat's a no go for me.

I understand the argument...you're worried that someone might recognize you on here. But guess what? They are on here too. Simple rule--don't post anything here or on any social media site that you wouldn't own in public. I would think the goal would be to eventually meet someone face-to-face. Are you going to shake their hand with your penis so that they know who you are?

Another argument-- you don't take good pictures. Well, figure out the problem & fix it. Do you need a haircut or at least run a comb through it & maybe some product? Easy fix. Do you need to trim the beard or, my preference, shave the fucker off? Another easy fix. Does you skin look horrible? Get a facial. Men need and are entitled to maintenance too. Do you need to update your eyeglasses or get contacts? Whatever is wrong is fixable. And for God-sake, smile or at least don't scowl. Who wants to fuck a guy that looks like he wants to choke the life out of you? Ok, well maybe there are some...

Still no face pic? Well, tease me then. My favorite pics, are those that let my imagination go crazy like the jeans that are unzipped to just there, an unbuttoned shirt or just a shot of the eyes. There is this one picture of a man, Gunner (yes, I called you out), laying naked on a beach with a flaccid penis. You can almost feel the heat of the sun and the sound of the water hitting the shore. Gets me hot just thinking about it...

While we are talking about pics, let's talk about other pics in your profile. Show us what you like to do outside of the bedroom. Remember women like to make an emotional connection. Do you like to scuba dive? Show us some of your pictures of a coral reef. Do you play an instrument or write music? Post a video of your work. Speaking of videos, a guy jacking off is boring and sad. Stop posting those.

Other things I don't want to see here
1. Your asshole. Gross!
2. You fucking another woman unless you are a couple & it's your partner.
3. I know I said post pictures of you hobbies, but I don't want to see a dead deer. It just makes me want to cry. Post the picture of deer prior to the killshot.
4. Your . This is a sex site after all. They have no place here. You can show them to me when we meet.
5. Your ex.

To sum it up so far-- Get a gold membership & post a face pic, not a crotch shot, as you main pic. At the very least, don't be the shadow man and not post anything. That will get you no attention. Stop being a pussy & let us see your face.

I'll talk about filling out your profile the next time I get a chance to blog

Later,



hgw90 62M  
228 posts
2/9/2017 10:37 am

GOOD GIRL


disago 55M

6/18/2019 2:16 pm

I do like the idea of an emotional connection type of photo. I may have to try that. That, and a face pic. Someday. Soon.


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