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Suggestion #4: Emailing a woman
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Suggestion #4: Emailing a woman So you have upgraded to gold. Now you can actually contact a woman. You have posted an interesting, non-threatening picture and an interesting profile so maybe she will respond. There are no guarantees in this blog only suggest on what peaks my interest. Remember that the ratio of men to women on this site is very skewed. YOU are going to have make the initial contact. YOU are going to have to do the chasing. YOU are going to have to be patient for a response, I hate to be negative, but there are some things you should NEVER EVER put in an email: NEVER be vulgar -- at least not at first. You don't who you are talking to. It may offend her. Don't assume that just because this is a sex site that woman want to be talked dirty to. If she leads you there you can follow, but let her initiate. Remember deep down women a looking primarily for a companion, not just a fuck buddy. Don't say anything to her that you would not want to be said to your mom, sister or . NEVER just say "Hi" or "How are you?". Yes, it nice, but those get over-looked by more creative emails. It's better than being vulgar and you may get some responses, but I would try a more creative approach. NEVER get upset by a rejection or no response. IT IS GOING TO HAPPEN A LOT. Get used to it and move on. It could be that she is a little bit overwhelmed at the moment or is taking a break. If you send her a nasty note, she will remember it and block your ass. BE NICE. If you are kind to her, she may change her mind when she is not quite so busy. Always remember no means no. Don't harass her. NEVER tell you entire life story in the first email. If it takes more than 15 seconds to read, you may loose her attention no matter how creative it is. Be like Shrek, an onion with many layers that have to unpeeled slowly. NEVER use a cookie-cutter email. A smart woman will see through that. Be specific to her. NEVER put your eggs in one basket. Don't just email one woman email several of them. Things you should do: Refer to her profile and tell her why you chose to email her. Be specific otherwise you may get accused of the cookie-cutter email. Don't be generic. Make it about her personality, not her looks. Don't refer to anything genetic. I would much rather be told that I have a sexy personality than a sexy body. Hell, it may not even be a current picture. She may not even look like that anymore. Be creative. Remember we dozens of emails a day. You want to be memorable, not just another message. A poem is always good and so is a joke or a riddle. Personally, I can't stand not knowing the punch line so I would have to reply to get the answer. Also, remember women like a little romance. Avoid endless emails. You want to have actual physical contact, right? So ask her out for drinks or a coffee within the first couple of correspondences. You don't have to know a person inside and out before you meet them. The only real way to get to know someone is face-to-face. Don't expect sex on the first meeting. Personally, if I'm feeling it, my legs will open wide first date, but I'm unusual. Most women like to be chased at least a little. BUT don't be pathetic. If she gives you uninterested signals, don't chase. Leave it be. Be honest. We will figure it out anyways. My next blog will be about the actual date itself. It's time for wine & popcorn. Later,   |
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what you have said here is pretty much good old common sense. too bad there isn't a lot of that going around on this site. looking forward to hearing about the date...especially the popcorn.
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There is some good stuff here. I have to disagree with these part of the statement: YOU are going to have to do the chasing. I dont have to chase. At least not the way I think you mean it. Remember that the ratio of men to women on this site is very skewed. This is true but for me that is not a problem. It's actually an advantage when 99.9% of the dudes on here are so fucking lame they never get a second look. Be creative. Remember we dozens of emails a day. You want to be memorable, not just another message. The best part. Trust me nice lady you have no idea what it is like for that 99.9% of men on this site that are not like me. The sad part is that I want them to feel the way they do. I want them to notice the fun Im having..... [video_embed 2081852]    
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you could always go to chat rooms to meet and chat with other setup meets
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