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The value of Honesty
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The value of Honesty Honesty, a very simple word yet apparently the interpretation of it leaves a lot to be desired. Generally, Honesty, means telling the truth. Usually, and apparently to some people it has an entirely different meaning. They translate honesty to mean that THEY can be brutally honest in their opinions, vocal to the point of brutality in decimating someone daily so long as THEY are not the one having the HONEST truths told about their self. Honesty, on a sex site where we have women/men cheating on their spouses daily. is that considered HONEST? A sex site, where if your neighbor or school where your attend knew you were on a sex site, a swinger, with nude pictures posted all over the place, that you went to different parties, where flashing bare breasts in public is considered acceptable behavior, would we still consider ourself honest? I think the answer would be yes you would. I have no doubt that the logical response from your mouth and mind would be that NO ONE has the right to KNOW your PRIVATE business. In that I would agree, they don't. Consequently, what makes anyone think or believe that THEY have the right to dig into someone else's life, or what they believe is someone else's life, and then email it all over the place to everyone they know. Post it in open forum of chat rooms, when they themself have sat and said "I don't give my information out" Yet they do not hesitate to give out SOMEONE ELSE'S INFORMATION and think its great fun. Do we see a dual standard here? no? well I certainly do. Further more WHY THE HELL do you even care!. If someone wants to say, be or do something in their private life who are YOU or ANYONE to prove them other than? YOU are doing what YOU want and portraying yourself the way you want to be seen. Suppose your neighbor don't like you, found out that you were a swinger or found photos of you on the internet or even on this site. Certainly, NOT how you portray yourself to them and the rest of the neighbors or y our employer either. They take and pass the photos and the information around thru the entire neighborhood and then to the school where your attend, and your employer using the explanation of, "It had to be done, they had to know what kind of people we have living in our community. They are liars and sexual perverts". Well that is THEIR perception of your behavior. It certainly does not make it fact or true but because they dislike you they figured they would do a community service and enlighten the world about YOU. Would you agree with them? HELL NO you wouldn't so what the hell makes anyone on this site think THEY have the right to do exactly the same thing to ANYONE. If YOU don't want to be OUTTED and have a dual or private life don't throw stones at others you BELIEVE have a different life style because YOU DO NOT KNOW the FACTS. Attending a couple of meet and greets, or seeing conversation in a chat room does NOT mean YOU KNOW someone or what their PRIVATE LIFE is. Let me see, this site was founded on DISCRETION I do believe, somewhere along the line the quality and caliber of people we now have here have tossed that word to the wind unless it applies to THEMSELF. I have seen entire first and last names of people published over and over in OPEN CHAT, sent to dozens thru emails, is that discrete?? I have seen addresses posted in OPEN CHAT, again discretion??? I have read fake profiles that were created that could have endangered the life of someone, leading others to believe that the victim was in a life style that they were not. A profile that the creator controlled the emails to and could and I have no doubt would have arranged dates for the fake profile person at a meet and greet and that person would have no knowledge of it happening at all. Very safe, and very adult don't you think. Yet it is their belief and I quote "They had it coming to them". Pardon me, but NO ONE has anything coming to them for anything no one died and appointed you the judge and jury on this site. Honesty, perhaps, those on this site, who go on and on until you want a pair of ear plugs or a barf bucket on how HONEST they are, that they are not fake or phony need to take a good look at THEIR honesty. Well, pardon my observation, does your neighbor know your here? does the school your attend know you live the lifestyle and have naked or semi naked photos all over the internet. NO? Why not!! you are screaming how HONEST you are, I think in the truest fashion of HONESTY, they should know all about you. Especially, as you feel its your RIGHT to go ahead and do this to someone else, just because YOU don't happen to like them. First off, NO ONE asked anyone to LIKE anyone on this site. That is a choice we all have. If you do NOT like someone, you have a handy IGGY button USE IT!!!. But NO ONE and I do mean NO ONE has the right to delve into someones life, and go into chats and emails, and tell outright lies, manufactured because of your dislike for a person and consider yourself HONEST, because you are indeed a liar and hypocrite. Even if you honestly BELIEVE or think what you are saying is the truth, in fact even if it IS the truth, you STILL have NO RIGHT to say something about a person, it is NOT YOUR LIFE. Would YOU like being possibly outted to your employers or your childrens teachers, for who and what you are? You shield yourself, your lifestyle from those who would indeed care what you are doing just to make yourself LOOK GOOD!!. THAT is not HONEST, it's hypocritical and DISHONEST. A comment, "it had to be done" Sorry NO ONE appointed you the voice of America to say or expose anyone for anything EVER. Not unless of course you are ready to have yourself totally exposed as well in the name of honesty. If you feel you have the right to do this in the name of honesty, perhaps, if it happens to you in your real life, you can recognize it as someone just making sure you are HONEST, just like you are doing. Just following your MANTRA. Lady |
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6/21/2009 6:05 am |
very nice
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