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Thought ya'll was joking
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Thought ya'll was joking When I first started reading the blogs, I kind of thought some of the bloggers were exaggerating the typical male on this site. I'll giggle and laugh, cause let's face it alot of it was funny as hell. As time went on, I began to see what they were blogging about. While there are many great guys on here in blogland, there is also alot of chumps that can't handle rejection. I'm aware that this is a sex site and I treat it as such. But there is no obligation to fuck everyone who shows interest, which it seems that alot of guys think that. So far I've been able to screen the creeps and douchebags, but one of them slip through the cracks. I went on meet and greet and within 15 min I knew I wasn't going to fuck him. So I told him as much. I didn't want to waste anymore of my time and his. He has a hissy fit about me meeting him on FriendFinder-x and was supposed to fuck him. Wtf? The last thing I would be is just a hole in the bed. Or be a pussy pocket that you pull out when you're feeling horny. I don't have indiscriminate sex. I have to actually like you and find you interesting to fuck you. It had me thinking. Comparing the guys that I meet on here and the guys that I date in real life was very sobering. While the sexual views are more liberal on here, some guys are just frustrating. I got a message while I was in my bitch mode and the guy first message was wanna fuck? My responding message was do you want to pay my rent. Of course, he got his panties in a knot. How can I take you seriously if you act as if you have no brains or common sense? Guys like that I can't take seriously. Desperation clinging to you as you run to each female asking wanna fuck. It doesn't make me want to fall to my knees and beg you to suck your dick, it just makes me laugh. 
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I think the anonymous nature of the net lets men act in a way that would get them slapped in real life as there are little to no consequences for there actions.
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I think the anonymous nature of the net lets men act in a way that would get them slapped in real life as there are little to no consequences for there actions.
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10/23/2016 6:45 am |
I agree with zip, the net with texting and FB and the like has given a lot of people, men and women, the opportunity to act with no emotions or courage! I have received messages from women that just want to meet at a hotel, dangerous of course, and not my style either! Your honest and up front, the best thing u can do is just block them and move on! Doing the right thing is almost always the most difficult! "Never argue with a fool, bystanders won't know the difference!" LOL!  
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I agree with zip, the net with texting and FB and the like has given a lot of people, men and women, the opportunity to act with no emotions or courage! I have received messages from women that just want to meet at a hotel, dangerous of course, and not my style either! Your honest and up front, the best thing u can do is just block them and move on! Doing the right thing is almost always the most difficult! "Never argue with a fool, bystanders won't know the difference!" LOL!
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Beautiful you hit the nail on the the head but maybe it should be male on the head to wake them up and into reality 
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I have also noticed there is this attitude that certain people are here for them specifically. They feel as if can ask/tell/command/demand you to do whatever they want. Some realize they are just being stupid and when you call them out about they back down. Some tuck theirs and try the same again with another person. Sadly there are some who strike back with anger. As if, to say how dare you actually want to have control over your own body. The nerve!  This is a Copy of My Profile Want to know even more about me? Read my Introduction Post. Feel free to drop me a line here: Give me All the Messages. Don't worry it is private! Check out all my rambles here, BlackRayne74!!   Desire becomes surrender, surrender becomes power. -Joker
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I have also noticed there is this attitude that certain people are here for them specifically. They feel as if can ask/tell/command/demand you to do whatever they want. Some realize they are just being stupid and when you call them out about they back down. Some tuck theirs and try the same again with another person. Sadly there are some who strike back with anger. As if, to say how dare you actually want to have control over your own body. The nerve!  The nerve saying you're a human being that has thought and emotions and should be treated as such! Gasp! How dare you? It's sad but true. I do try to offer suggestions even though it's seem like a personal issue. Like there's an actual pussy pocket and toys made to look like a female that they can use and whores that charges for that kind of services, but they just stutter but I met you off FriendFinder-x like that makes a difference.
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Ooo,cookiès, thanks.
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I think when you got a naked pic or your profile says you want to gag on a big dick I mean what do you expect honestly a gentleman gtfoh!
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This understanding is probably why you get pussy and others don't. My question to guys like that is: If you can treat me like a whore, then why can't I treat you like my personal ATM?
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Most guys haven't figured out that you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. There is really no need to be disrespectful. You only showing your true colors and proving a point why I wouldn't fuck. But I kind of prefer that they show their hand sooner then lter so I wont waste my time. Do you ever go on the advice line? I think you give great advice and a few guys could learn something from you.
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I've heard this from more women on this site than I can count. It gets discouraging to think that so many men think the internet gives them immunity when all it gives them is anonymity. And that doesn't ensure success no matter how crudely they behave. This isn't rocket science, ferchrissakes. But...if you think for a minute about how dumb the average person is, sooner or later it's going to come to you that half of people are dumber than that. Sadly, men are overrepresented on this site so it follows that you are going to encounter some very dumb bastards. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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I've heard this from more women on this site than I can count. It gets discouraging to think that so many men think the internet gives them immunity when all it gives them is anonymity. And that doesn't ensure success no matter how crudely they behave. This isn't rocket science, ferchrissakes. But...if you think for a minute about how dumb the average person is, sooner or later it's going to come to you that half of people are dumber than that. Sadly, men are overrepresented on this site so it follows that you are going to encounter some very dumb bastards.
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Right on. It gets utterly tiring sometimes dealing with some of these asshole men. Yeah its a sex site but that doesn't mean that as soon as we meet we are going to have sex. I get those messages and just sit back and laugh because most of them still haven't read my profile. I have been catching some good ones who are being patient with me though so there is still hope. So don't give up on the lot of them yet. And maybe we should make a group or something LOL so we can really vent about it.
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FriendFinder-x has a advice line. On the home page it would be under the section with the blogs.
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