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Creep alert
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Creep alert Do guys know when they are being creepy? There has been plenty of times that I've gotten turned off,because the guy was acting in a<b> creepy </font></b>and/or stalker like fashion. Now I know that since I'm on the internet that I will run into my fair share of weirdos, it's to be expected. But on a sex site, where one is trying to get a female to fuck you, one would think one would try to put their best foot forward. Making a female feel unsafe and uncomfortable, will not accomplish anything, so why do it. It defeats the purpose. There're guys that complain that they can't find any real women on here. I can't help but wonder how<b> creepy </font></b>was their approach? How unsafe or uncomfortable they've made a woman feel? |
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Just a HUGE cock here handing out orgasms to lucy females!!!
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Excuses excuses. My heart goes out to them really.* heavy sarcasm *  Btw I just love ❤️ your blog.
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Or the "wanna chat" and have nothing to say.
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You'd have loved my original profile. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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agree with you, sometimes common courtesy and manners are lacking
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Do guys know when they are being creepy? .... Sometimes yes, sometimes no. "Creepy" can also be very subjective online[what one thinks is creepy, another may not]. But on a sex site, where one is trying to get a female to fuck you, one would think one would try to put their best foot forward. ... Not necessarily. But more exact, "On a sex site, the goal is to get the woman offline". "Offline", is where the magic happens. I noted that "Creepy" can be subjective. Online you might read the words of a man trying to be charming, or trying to "Put his best foot forward", online ....this can be creepy. ....Why? Because there is no "Sensing", only some guy playing to your imagination. Whether he is blatantly rude, or really nice, either one of these can come across as "Creepy" to someone. When you're "Feeling" perfectly safe and perfectly comfortable with an entity you've never met, that's when you should consider that something may be wrong, or at least, when you go meet him , still use necessary precautions. Making a female feel unsafe and uncomfortable, .... Making a female "Feel" safe, and "Feel" comfortable, can also be a huge creepy web. He's [well to be real they might not be male] manipulating your imagination. This is why all the professionals tell you when you meet someone, use appropriate precautions. Making a female feel unsafe and uncomfortable will not accomplish anything, so why do it. .... Generally it may not accomplish anything. It defeats the purpose. ... Perhaps most of the time. There're guys that complain that they can't find any real women on here. ... Yeah, but what does that mean? Does it mean he can't get any women to meet him offline? Does it mean he keeps getting attention from queers and homos? Don't know. Tell him to elaborate next time. I can't help but wonder how creepy was their approach? .... Sure, but maybe he was being all polite and everything, and for some, online, that can be really creepy, too. How unsafe or uncomfortable they've made a woman feel? ... Mostly we're talking "Perspective". That's up to each woman.
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Do guys know when they are being creepy? .... Sometimes yes, sometimes no. "Creepy" can also be very subjective online[what one thinks is creepy, another may not]. But on a sex site, where one is trying to get a female to fuck you, one would think one would try to put their best foot forward. ... Not necessarily. But more exact, "On a sex site, the goal is to get the woman offline". "Offline", is where the magic happens. I noted that "Creepy" can be subjective. Online you might read the words of a man trying to be charming, or trying to "Put his best foot forward", online ....this can be creepy. ....Why? Because there is no "Sensing", only some guy playing to your imagination. Whether he is blatantly rude, or really nice, either one of these can come across as "Creepy" to someone. When you're "Feeling" perfectly safe and perfectly comfortable with an entity you've never met, that's when you should consider that something may be wrong, or at least, when you go meet him , still use necessary precautions. Making a female feel unsafe and uncomfortable, .... Making a female "Feel" safe, and "Feel" comfortable, can also be a huge creepy web. He's [well to be real they might not be male] manipulating your imagination. This is why all the professionals tell you when you meet someone, use appropriate precautions. Making a female feel unsafe and uncomfortable will not accomplish anything, so why do it. .... Generally it may not accomplish anything. It defeats the purpose. ... Perhaps most of the time. There're guys that complain that they can't find any real women on here. ... Yeah, but what does that mean? Does it mean he can't get any women to meet him offline? Does it mean he keeps getting attention from queers and homos? Don't know. Tell him to elaborate next time. I can't help but wonder how creepy was their approach? .... Sure, but maybe he was being all polite and everything, and for some, online, that can be really creepy, too. How unsafe or uncomfortable they've made a woman feel? ... Mostly we're talking "Perspective". That's up to each woman.
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I'll admit that this is a totally subjective perception of creepy. You gave me a lot of food for thought. The thing I want to add is that the only way to get a female to meet a female offline and willing to fuck, is to make sure that she's comfortable and feels safe. Not saying that the female should relax her guards, because even crazy people can appear sane. The thing I want to add is that the only way to get a female to meet a female offline and willing to fuck, is to make sure that she's comfortable and feels safe. .... But that's also creepy. "Safe", "Comfortable", these are an illusion when online. You're not safe, you're not actually comfortable. He/she has only succeeded in manipulating your mind into pretending you're safe and comfortable , to meet them. Your safety and comfort is your responsibility. Not saying that the female should relax her guards, because even crazy people can appear sane.... That's right. The meaning of the words , "Safe" and "Comfortable" don't apply to "Online" activity with another person. You take a chance, when you go meet a woman or a man.
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4/28/2017 7:49 pm |
I think there is a certain element in online sites like this that appeal to people who are more socially awkward, and likely to come across more creepy than others. The point made in an earlier comment on online conversations lacking context from body language also applies, though I won't put it past a creepy dude sometimes being a creepy dude. Regardless of whether its genuine creepy or just social awkwardness, I'd hope the person backs off when they give a creepy impression and doesn't double down on creepiness to make the woman more uncomfortable. But then, I look at stupid things I did when I was younger, and politely hide my head in the sand hoping I never really came across the way I've seen others do.
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I think there is a certain element in online sites like this that appeal to people who are more socially awkward, and likely to come across more creepy than others. The point made in an earlier comment on online conversations lacking context from body language also applies, though I won't put it past a creepy dude sometimes being a creepy dude. Regardless of whether its genuine creepy or just social awkwardness, I'd hope the person backs off when they give a creepy impression and doesn't double down on creepiness to make the woman more uncomfortable. But then, I look at stupid things I did when I was younger, and politely hide my head in the sand hoping I never really came across the way I've seen others do.
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You always have to be very careful of how people talk and react with each other in that sort of way and take it all with a grain of salt and keep that distance at a 10ft pole level!
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You always have to be very careful of how people talk and react with each other in that sort of way and take it all with a grain of salt and keep that distance at a 10ft pole level!
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5/9/2017 8:40 am |
Respect for each other is definitely lacking now that everyone has the power of the keyboard nowadays, thinking they can say anything online and not have to worry. I definitely we all need to start to treat each other so much better than we are.
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Always go with your feelings and do what you feel is right in a given situation. If others cant understand you putting your family first, then your better off with out them.
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